Okay, so what I am trying to say is, I have basically been suffering from E.D. for the last 19 years... even viagra did not seem to help. I love women, and I would like to have sex, but I feel that part of my life is over. Im sure with the right partner, I could have sex SOMETIMES, but all the women Ive been with want it ALL THE TIME and when I cant perform to their satisfaction, of course they think it is because they dont turn me on any more... which is the farthest thing from the truth. I wish I could meet a woman who understands my "Problem" at least she would not have to worry about me chasing other women all the time. Is it Possible there is somebody out there for me? Am I dreaming to think there is a woman out there whose "sexual appetite" is close to my own. I mean, I LIKE sex, but it is NOT the most important thing in my life.
I need a woman who is patient in that department and not demanding. I am aged 45 and not a bad catch otherwise. Am I being Relistic or Not?
2006-12-31 12:42:09 · 20 answers · asked by John P 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes it is possible a lot of cuddle time and tell her how she makes you feel so she don't feel insecure. If that's your picture i see why women are all over you ! but you will find that someone on your level .. I believe God has made a mate for everyone !! and don't give up there are a lot of women who look for men that are not sex driven cause I'm one of them!!!
2006-12-31 12:51:20 · answer #1 · answered by classy chic 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You’re not being unrealistic. You just need to find the right woman.
If all the women you’ve been with want sex all the time, then I’m wondering how old they are. You said you're 45. Surely you’re not dating 20-year-olds, are you? For very young women sex *might* be one of the most important parts of a relationship, but older women tend to value other things about the relationship just as much as the sex.
There are plenty of women who don’t want sex on a constant basis. Although I’ve never personally known a woman who didn’t ever want sex. But, I’m sure you realize that there are other parts of your body that can be used to satisfy a woman, and there are also…items that can be purchased to assist you two in that area.
2006-12-31 13:24:37 · answer #2 · answered by kp 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women think they are very sophisticated in that department but they are complete morons. They don't own one o' those and can't imagine why it might work or not work except to believe it is all about them. Sometimes other stupid things go through their minds too.
There ARE women who lost their sex drive, never had one, or are very patient, but you have to explain your situation up front or you will keep finding the wrong one. It may be that the best way to do that is on a website profile. Some who claim or think they are patient could turn out not to be but I have come across happy couples where they have an agreement that their relationship does not include a full and complete sex life. Go for it. Good luck.
2006-12-31 12:58:35 · answer #3 · answered by Benji 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Don't give up! I am perfectly capable and so is my husband. But I could live without it just fine. As long as there is love and cuddles and closeness I think that there is probably a lot more women out there that feel this way. I really hope you don't let this eat on you too much and don't let sex be introduced into the relationship until you have established a really good friendship first, If someone would stop seeing you because af that its because they weren't close enough to begin with. Hang in there. No pun intended.
2006-12-31 12:54:43 · answer #4 · answered by *queenfairy1*Antioch California 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No it isn't a boring relationship with no sex, you are honestly better off not having sex until after you get married, cuddling and hugging are plenty to keep the spark going, they are sometimes better to keep the spark going, after you've had sex in my opinion it is actually harder to keep things going becuase there is nothing left to look forward to, nothing to keep you hooked or infatuated with that person because you've been all the way with them.
2016-03-29 02:30:17 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I could very easily fall in love with a man like you as long as he showed love, emotions and intimacy in other ways. Not having intercourse isn't the end of the world. There are so many other ways for two people to show each other they love one another. I could never live in a realationhip that didn't have physical closeness for one another, but it doesn't have to be through intercourse.
2006-12-31 13:01:33 · answer #6 · answered by Sally B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think a man and women can have a relationship without sex. But , there are also other ways of pleasing a women .maybe oral sex! Just touching her. Kissing her and cuddling her.I know if my husband couldn't have sex I would still love him and be alright with it as long as he was still affectionate.
2006-12-31 18:27:27 · answer #7 · answered by lovely 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all women like sex, you will find someone who you are compatible with and have a wonderful life. I haven't had sex in 3 years, by choice, no big deal to me
2006-12-31 12:44:26 · answer #8 · answered by ma 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's not always about sex theres other things that you can do like go out on dates are even go get coffee; matter of fact you can just sit inside and watch movies
2006-12-31 12:50:18 · answer #9 · answered by inaijah 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you have had E.D. since age 26 you may want to see a Dr... it may be a more serious problem... or it could be all mental... go to a shrink and see if they can help.
2006-12-31 12:46:17 · answer #10 · answered by goodtimefriend 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋