I'm expenting a baby any day now, and my finance has been acting crazy to me, but I don't want to stay for sure. We have been together for about 10 months, we just bought a house together. Here in the past month or so he has been acting really shady,he just got a new job and he has been leaving his phone in his truck, last night he brough his phone in and about 2am this morning his phone starts going crazy. I think that he may have gave his number out to one of the girls at work but i don't know for sure, he has never left his phone in his truck before, if he ever left him phone in his truck before he would go get it. I think that there is some thing very funny going on. PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!
2006-12-31 12:41:51 · 9 answers · asked by tmjlauder 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
When he's asleep, check his phone to see number directory, numbers called, and numbers received recently. If you don't recognize the numbers, write them down on paper and hide them for later use. Also watch his body language when he's around you. Do not let him catch you doing this, because if he's not doing anything wrong, if it's just hormones, you'll put a huge crater of distrust in your relationship.
2006-12-31 13:02:36 · answer #1 · answered by katriana30 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We woman always think of our-self but not the guy when we are expecting. Men so worry alot. About weather he going to be a good dad, can he afford the needs for his child, and now a house that a lot on a man it alot of pressure too. You should not allow yourself to get pregnant that alone is alot pressure. You know you are not married to him so he can leave if he wants. The more crazy you act its going to push him away. Being pregnant your hormones are all over the place just talk to him about his fears and listen to him that way it will open the door of understanding from you.
2006-12-31 20:53:35 · answer #2 · answered by rma2ks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I might be your pregnancy hormones going crazy- but maybe not. A woman's intuition is a powerful thing! One night at midnight my huband (then boyfriend's) cell was going off- it turned out to be a female friend of his from high school. They had NO interest in each other romantically, but I didn't beleive that at first! Well, good luck!
2006-12-31 20:46:44 · answer #3 · answered by Honesty given here! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is the baby his??? Sounds like something fishy is definately going on...Make sure the house is in your name. Get ready to kick this joker to the curb. After your lawyer shreds his bank accounts for child support. DO NOT get married until these questions are resolved.
2006-12-31 20:46:54 · answer #4 · answered by Psycomagnet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like hes having second thoughts , an yes there maybe someone else involve ,the best thing to do is ask ,even if your not sure about his feelings towards you.its better to know now than find out later,like my granny always says,better safe than sorry
2006-12-31 20:53:53 · answer #5 · answered by rsmth96 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you ain't paranoid???
Ask him straight if there is something going on... Some men get scared at the thought of a child and sex with the mother...
2006-12-31 20:45:08 · answer #6 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u should confront him and ask him whats going on and y he is leavin his phone in the truck and that u r very woried about him
2006-12-31 20:51:30 · answer #7 · answered by osmosis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
face fact he is doing somthing he is probaly only with you cause of the baby rap it up 10 and your 9 months he got traped and proply despise ya
2006-12-31 20:46:40 · answer #8 · answered by deionnie2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I want to let you know that there is a lover named Jesus and he will supply your every need.
2006-12-31 20:48:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋