I'm having sex with someone that is close to twice my age, but i am loving every second of it! Before i had never had a man want to please me, all they wanted was to bust a nut. I finally reached my 1st orgasim and starting to enjoy sex and know how it really is suppose to be. does anyone find this wrong?? Im close to the man and have know him for a few years. And because i know that nothing more can happen to us ( coupled, married ect.) I find myself not becoming emotional attached(which ALWAYS happens within like 2 weeks!!) I care for this man but in different ways.. He has taught and showed me things i would have never have recieved for many years. I actual feel comfrontable with him and have no problem being myself. as for the questions- is this wrong in your eyes??
2006-12-31 12:40:42 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
yes im of age and on birth control and being safe. We have a lot of fun and neither of us are in relationships so no one is getter hurt!!!
2006-12-31 12:57:14 · update #1
It sounds like you're happy, and if you're happy then that's all that matters! You are both adults and are just having a bit of fun! I wish I had a man who would give me the pleasure that yours does! Keep up the good work and stay happy!
2006-12-31 12:56:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I don't think there is anything wrong with what your doing.
It's great you found someone, you can be yourself with.
As long as it works for both of you, that's great.
However I would caution you, this attachment you have can prevent you from meeting other people. I also wonder about your 2 week emotional attachment you have & then your feelings dropping?!
Is that your MO? It sounds to me, that you have a fear of intimacy & your current relationship might suit you.
This way you don't have to deal with attachment issues.
Did anything bad ever happen to you? I would look @ this issue sometime, it might prevent you from having emotional attachments in the future.
2007-01-01 04:50:34 · answer #2 · answered by Fraulein 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i could recommend to describe to him in a kiddy way regarding the human reproductive equipment as a results of fact as an 8 3 hundred and sixty 5 days previous, there is basically lots he will comprehend at this age till he gets older. do not difficulty too lots approximately him asking if 2 adult men could have intercourse. oftentimes at 8yrs previous, young little ones are very curious and at that age, they want to locate. they generally have an mind's eye it somewhat is untouchable till they become older and that they completely comprehend what persons are asserting to them. whether it somewhat is sturdy or undesirable. I remember while i became a sprint lady, i became so inquisitive approximately all forms of issues. extremely intercourse. yet what my mom did became, she'd tell me "i will inform you once you're older." And gave me a huge hug and kiss. Now that i'm grown, I see why she did that. you recognize alot extra once you're older. So i could recommend you employ that attitude till he gets older. basically be sure once you ultimately come to a determination to talk to him extra approximately intercourse as he gets older, be trouble-free with him, and he would be happy. :)
2016-10-19 07:23:08 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is fine. It sounds like you are enjoying yourself. Being with an older experienced man is great, because he is not in it just to bust a nut. He actually wants to please you too. That's great! Enjoy yourself.
2006-12-31 16:47:51 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You might have just got lucky. Age, schmage. A lot of people are in relationships where nothing works, and age is irrelevant.
"Wrong" relative to what? If you're happy, leave it at that.
2006-12-31 12:46:28 · answer #5 · answered by Paul W 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No its not wrong at all.... when I was a bit younger I was with a much older man as well... the older they get the more experience they are and they are all wanting to please and enjoy pleasing instead of just getting off themselves.. Have fun!! while you can.
2006-12-31 12:52:08 · answer #6 · answered by Jenns705 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
This is great for you. I don't see anything wrong with it. I just hope you are of legal age and the man isn't just some creepy old guy.
2006-12-31 12:51:27 · answer #7 · answered by zimmiesgrl 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
aleast you found out that some older men actually treat you right in bed, even if it's just about sex, without a true relationship, good luck.
2007-01-02 07:18:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
what could be wrong when two people enjoy each other. That brrings goodness into the world.
2006-12-31 12:49:49 · answer #9 · answered by don 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you are both consenting adults, and there are no other people involved who could be hurt by this, then who cares what anyone thinks? Go for it!!!
2006-12-31 12:47:27 · answer #10 · answered by jmiller 5 · 4⤊ 1⤋