2006-12-31 12:24:59 · 35 answers · asked by bambino 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I guess it means 'He's A Liar' and there's not a lot you can do about it, now , if he had been 'A Thief ' - that would have been much easier, because, It's a lot easier to catch a thief, than it is to catch out a Liar !!!
2007-01-02 13:17:58 · answer #1 · answered by Sierra One 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have had this problem; l would lie to my wife.
Men lie for many reasons:
1. They don't want you to know, because it might make you hurt and it's better that you didn't know. Although you might think telling the truth is so easy, but for guys it's not.
2. They have psychological issues that are a result of something that happened to them at a young age.
3. Or a bad relationship of honesty that did not turn out so well.
4. He may not want to be with you any more.
Either way it's wrong, my wife and I have been married for 5 years and lying almost killed our relationship early on, but with effort and understanding from both sides with out judgment we were able to work through it. If it's really bad and he can not stop, seek professional help before it's too late.
If your husband is lying to you, there's a reason, either be bold and call him on it, hire a private investigator - but be ready for the out come, or just seek help.
That's the best I can do, good luck with him.
2006-12-31 12:40:10 · answer #2 · answered by Manny Fresh 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Does he have a mental disorder? Can he help the lying? I have been in a relationship with a man that cannot stop lying either? He I believe does not believe he will get caught even though he KNOWS he will get caught? Does he like drama? I sure do not understand why people think they need to lie. Look at the other actions he is showing. that site should really help you! Take care and good luck, Happy New Year
2006-12-31 12:43:53 · answer #3 · answered by icanbeyoursmile 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He feels insecure. People who have had an insecure childhood or background do this and you have to tell him gently that you love him and there is no need to tell lies. I hate lies but am lucky that I have been secure all my life. I think also they feel inadequate and think that others are better in some way or other than they are and they have to be told that that is not so. Everyone is different and someone may be better at one thing than another. find something he is really good at and boost him up a little so he feels better in himself.
2006-12-31 12:34:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have heard this before, and my brother suffered it for a little while. Doctors would described it as complusive lieing dissorder. Your husband feels the need to continously lie. Maybe he doesnt feel like he's in control of alot of things and lieing about circumstances or his whereabouts maybe a way of proving to himself that only he has control and knows truely what is going on. You husband will need support greatly and will have to learn to trust you with the truth aswell, even when doing something faithful.
2007-01-02 02:30:25 · answer #5 · answered by Need_to_know 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of us lie some of the time. Some people seem to lie most of the time, even when there is no need to lie. Often they even believe the lies they tell.
These links will give you more information about this condition.
2006-12-31 12:30:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on what the lie is. You seem to be getting some really bad advice on this question!
Its hard to give a definitive answer and yes it could be he has a problem he needs help with but equally it may be that he feels hes protecting you and doing it out of (misguided) love.
2006-12-31 19:01:25 · answer #7 · answered by rodandalisonthompson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he think his life is boring so he making it more interesting by lieing. What going to happen is he going to get caught on those lies and then what? He probably believes his own lies and if that true he better seek counseling.
2006-12-31 12:32:46 · answer #8 · answered by rma2ks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me as like you ask him too many questions, and he lies because if he told the truth it would lead to more questions.You have to remember a lot of men are not chatty and don't feel the need to explain and analise everything.
2006-12-31 21:29:30 · answer #9 · answered by vinylsteve 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I found with my ex it made him sound better. Although I knew what he was telling was not true. The ones he was telling knew no different. The sad part is he believed in them. I wish you the best. He is just not happy with how he feels about himself. Very Low self esteem,
Good Luck to you !
2006-12-31 12:57:17 · answer #10 · answered by young at heart 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋