See me Iwould never cheat because its such a wrong thing to do and god will repay you, so why cheat instead of just breaking up?
2006-12-31 12:16:13 · 26 answers · asked by Cheare C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There is absolutely no good reason to cheat, ever. But cheaters think they can have it all by carrying on multiple relationships.
2006-12-31 12:27:38 · answer #1 · answered by genuine1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is never a good reason to cheat, of course. All I can do is share my experience with the subject. When I was married I came close to doing it once. At that time I was feeling lost and emotionally disconnected from my husband. I had serious issues with my own self-esteem. I was so empty inside. I didn't plan it at all, but I put myself in a bad situation and thank God I managed to get out before anything really happened.
Some people want to have the security of a steady relationship, but also want to experience the excitement of a new encounter with someone different. They want to "have their cake and eat it too". They don't even think it is really that wrong as long as they don't get caught.
I suppose there are a lot of reasons people do it. I doubt they seriously think about the consequences of their actions in the long run. They just do what feels good at that very moment.
The person who cheats will always pay a bigger price than the one they betrayed. I don't want to be that person.
2006-12-31 20:45:20 · answer #2 · answered by amethyst1195 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
cheating is never the answer for anything don't cheat because #1 you will hurt the people that r involved,#2 it will only make you look bad in the long run, if u feel u should cheat or want to cheat then break up with that person, or just learn to control your urges. good-luck and happy new year!
2006-12-31 20:27:43 · answer #3 · answered by no toosure24 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There is no good reason to cheat, even though cheaters give their excuses. Most (if NOT all!!!) cheaters I have come across in my life are cowards. Because if you were truly mature (regardless of what age you are) about relationships and dared to be honest, you wouldn't resort to doing things behind the partner's back and would, instead, bring communication and decisions to the table.
2006-12-31 20:36:58 · answer #4 · answered by purringout 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There is never a good reason to cheat . You should end a relationship before you even think about seeing someone else.
2007-01-01 02:20:50 · answer #5 · answered by lovely 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I honestly can not think of a good reason to cheat. IF you feel you need to cheat, then it is a sign of a larger problem within the relationship. If you still want to be with the partner, then seek help, if not, break up BEFORE you cheat.
2006-12-31 20:23:37 · answer #6 · answered by chownrott 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Any reason you choose. There is always a word to justify the wrong that you do or intend to do. There is no good or bad reason to cheat. Cheating is cheating!
2006-12-31 20:49:14 · answer #7 · answered by alpha & omega 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No good reason to cheat. It seems that everything is disposable these days. I'm sorry to come across someone that has no morals or values. Grow up. Do you honestly think someone would tell you that there's a good reason to cheat? Idiot.
Hi Cheare, don't use my post to reply to me. I'm not trying to be an internet "gangster." I'm not black. You asked a question and you got an honest answer. If you can't take the truth then don't ask. Sorry if you are offended, but sometimes the truth hurts. Please don't reply to my post anymore as I will report abuse. Thanks!
2006-12-31 20:25:22 · answer #8 · answered by SillyKimmie 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
There are reasons WHY people cheat but no good reason to cheat.
People DO cheat mainly because the love flickered out....the wife doesn't have sex with the hubby anymore so he seeks it elsewhere. Midlife crisis could set in and the cheater is looking to recapture his/her youth with someone younger. People pay for it by seeking out a hooker/escort. Or simply, they fell in love with someone else and just go for it.
These are NO GOOD reasons here...just basically reasons.
2006-12-31 20:24:44 · answer #9 · answered by ? 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋
There is NO good reason to cheat,if things aren't working out,then either get counseling or get to packing it up and moving on
2006-12-31 20:18:40 · answer #10 · answered by grbarnaba 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋