Im friends with girls who rarely cry, but when it happens I have no clue what to do or say. I hate not being able to help.
2006-12-31 12:14:09 · 17 answers · asked by Romeo C 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
wipe their tears off with a tissue, hug them, and pat their shoulders. It is better not to say anything, because usually when guys say something in such situations, it only adds more oil to the flame/
2006-12-31 12:18:52 · answer #1 · answered by OC 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 19:05:24 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hold her in a long hug. Ask what's wrong. If she can't answer, just keep hugging her until she can answer. Don't offer advice unless she asks for it. If she talks about a problem, and you happen to know someone who has had a similar experience, don't tell her about it; it will only make her feel worse. Let her know that you're there for her, and that you care.
2006-12-31 14:16:35 · answer #3 · answered by postcardtrader 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first try 2 get both sides of the story get 2 a point where u are at a good understanding. then see if thers a way for u 2 help tell them if he aint worth crying for pack and leave there maybe somebody else out there who need you and u need them.
2006-12-31 12:17:43 · answer #4 · answered by Keilsha Robinson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to say anything. If you are close enough, give them a hug. That says more than words a lot of times. Or just say---I'm sorry. DON'T think you always have to fix everything. We don't expect that. We just need someone to be close sometimes.
2006-12-31 12:16:19 · answer #5 · answered by donnabellekc 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should alter ur reaction to the situation but most of the time just tell her ur always there for her and say her name a few times to show u r listening.
2006-12-31 12:17:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Aww! You are really sweet and special to want to do this for your friend! Just tell her that you care for and appreciate her, and let her know that when or whatever she wants to talk about, that you will be there for her!
2006-12-31 12:16:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ask her what is wrong and See if she wants to talk about it. If she tells you she does not want to talk about it( she really does) then just give her a hung and tell her that everything will be alright!
2006-12-31 12:16:19 · answer #8 · answered by Grown Lady 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to be comforting to her... be supportive of whatever she feels. Give her a big hug and assure her everything thing is going to be okay!
2006-12-31 12:16:48 · answer #9 · answered by Shalxox 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, if you're there with them just hold them in a big hug and just whisper that everything will be alright. and also, sometimes we just need someone to listen to us...sometimes you actually don't have to say anything...
2006-12-31 12:16:13 · answer #10 · answered by funkifiedfreak 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋