2006-12-31 11:06:28 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Before and After Baby. Why be surprised by someone that can't do it right. You're stuck with them after marriage. If you one of those ultra religious types and you marry a dud, your hosed!
It's a batch 22, do it before marriage, you burn in hell. Do it after marriage and it sucks, if you divorce... YOU BURN IN HELL!
2006-12-31 11:13:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sexual intercourse is defined as sexual contact between individuals involving penetration, esp. the insertion of a man's erect penis into a woman's vagina. Yes, it is a sin to have sexual intercourse before marriage (1 Corinthians 7:2). Below is a bible verse to help you make your decision about whether you should try going to "2nd base." In this verse, the Apostle Paul talks about knowing that certain things are bad for you: “I have the right to do anything,” you say—but not everything is beneficial. “I have the right to do anything”—but I will not be mastered by anything.1 Corinthians 6:12. This scripture means that just because it is permissible for you to do something, it does not mean that it is going to be good for you. I want to do all things that glorify God and walk in the Spirit (or by the word of God) even though I'm free to make my own decisions. (Creflo Dollar). In other words...You can do whatever you want but if you start fooling around, will you be able to resist the temptation of taking it further? If this will tempt you to go further into sexual intercourse then I would have to say, "Just don't go there." However, if something happens, I want you to know that when you ask Jesus into your heart, you have forgiveness when you repent any sin because of the grace of God (Acts 3:19). God bless!!!
2016-05-23 01:23:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
After marriage
2006-12-31 12:16:46 · answer #3 · answered by Sally B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That all depende on you and your faith in God, if you do in fact even believe in Him. The issue of sexual intercousre is explained in the Bible and what is expected of you in regards to this.
From that point onward, it is totally up to you. I will tell you this. Whatever decision you make today, tomorrow or in the future, you will have the rest of your life to live with the results of that.
Also remember, keeping yourself for your husband also means that you want to consider your husband keeping himself for you too!
If it doesn't go both ways, what good is the value of your commitment to each other?
Figure also, just exactly what respect do you have for each other in doing something that might weigh heavily on the success of your long term relationship that doesn't always huarantee making it to marriage....
Then there is also the societal failures that are increasingly leading young couples to divorce.
There could be diseases, pregnancy, all sorts of things at risk.
Might want to research the current end-results of what you are about to delve into BEFORE you decide to go there.
2006-12-31 11:20:02 · answer #4 · answered by gromeo747 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have waited this long for being intimate with him why not wait? If you can't stand the anticipation of the what it will be like, wait. If you love him and you have both set a date and can't stand to wait then it's up to you. I personally think it's a beautiful thing that you have stayed a virgin for your wedding night. I know it may feel awkward but at the same time it will be a night to remember forever and your fiance will be so proud to have his wife be a virgin. Good luck and the decision is yours. Happy New Year!
2006-12-31 11:19:42 · answer #5 · answered by beamer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I waited until I was married. I don't believe in it before you get married. Sex is for the marriage bed only! I was 28 years old and still a virgin on my wedding day. And I am proud of that fact!
2006-12-31 12:06:58 · answer #6 · answered by LITTLE 1 :o) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After marriage would be most appropriate but it is definately your own choice between the two of you as long as you are BOTH of age and consenting adults,otherwise it is considered to be RAPE
2006-12-31 11:48:50 · answer #7 · answered by grbarnaba 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After marriage of course, if you have sex before marriage it's not going to be any different after marriage. You silly goose.
2006-12-31 11:22:41 · answer #8 · answered by angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before and after! If its not good before, why would you get married and have bad sex for the next ten years or more?
2006-12-31 12:31:12 · answer #9 · answered by wittster 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Before of course, unless you are a virgin. Then I would advise you wait. But if not you should check it out and make sure it is satisfying.
2006-12-31 11:10:05 · answer #10 · answered by florie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋