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i asked him about it and he said he doe not use my computer for internet purposes and got pissed off.. this is a guy that lies about looking at porn.. what else does he lie about... right

2006-12-31 09:21:15 · 20 answers · asked by marriedtoaworkaholic 1 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

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maybe he wants to have a baby.talk to him about that,see what he says.good luck!

2006-12-31 09:24:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Why are you still with him if he is such a dishonest person? Either the relationship shapes-up or shapes-out.
Has he ask you to get pregnant? Maybe he just wants to educate himself on pregnancy so that you both can plan on the birth-date of your future baby. How did you ask him? Do you treat him like a child? Relationships are complicated and the answers and solutions are as well.
Do you really love him? How long have you been married? I'm sure deep inside you know the reason. Good Luck!

2006-12-31 09:28:29 · answer #2 · answered by Abby 4 · 0 1

If he was researching to get YOU pregnant, then he certainly wouldn't have responded so negatively to you.. In fact, that would defeat his purpose cuz you'd kick him right out of the bed if he's a jerk. It would have been a perfect time for him to bring up the topic if he wanted to have kids with YOU. My take on it is... he got someone else pregnant and is checking the "progress & development" of his illegitimate child.

2006-12-31 13:16:42 · answer #3 · answered by catchernkeeper 2 · 0 0

He may be researching in preparation for discussing having a child with you or on a darker side he may have someone else pregnant or if you have an older daughter he may have found out that she is with child.

Ask him and see what his response is both in regards to the words that he uses as well as his body language, as that will tell you the most.

2006-12-31 09:25:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1 1

If you're not pregnant, his girlfriend is, why else would he have any interest at all in the subject. He's probably trying to find out how far along is TOO far for an abortion, which he undoubtedly would be in favor of, considering you're in the picture, or maybe trying to find out the cost of an abortion. Regardless, he knocked up someone and it ain't you. Throw the liar out.

2006-12-31 09:31:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

You know what you do? Ask him. Do it calmly, do not attack him. If he senses anger, he will become defensive and go into his cave. That will push him away. Men are very easy to get a long with. I know that thinking of him w/another woman makes you angry, but try to keep your composure. Suggest that you would like him to talk to you honestly and openly about what he is doing. Do not nag though! Let us know what happens. Take care.

2006-12-31 09:33:45 · answer #6 · answered by SillyKimmie 4 · 1 0

Men are ALWAYS looking at porn even when they SAY they are not......they seem to enjoy looking at weird fetish porn crap too, even when they aren't into it them self.....porn searches produce A LOT of different links that they just HAVE TO click!!
I don't know what to say.......my man is the same way.....all men are in my opinion, and if they SAY they don't or "never would" , they are lying....I used to work in the "adult industry" and I was always AMAZED at the people that porn drags in!!!!

2006-12-31 09:29:05 · answer #7 · answered by Minky 3 · 0 0

If he is Polish, ask him hypothetically: "Dear, if you had a girlfriend, where would you hide her phone number?"

...then, call that number and ask her if she is going to keep the child.

if her answer is yes, seek a job, to help him budget and pay for child support.

Congratulations!

PS - Many men who look at porn are attempting to understand the current motivations of the newer models. This is purely academic, and explains their frequent study habits, so don't worry. Christians observe the pages in order to pray for the souls of the young victims. Do not judge your man, as he may be completely innocent.

2006-12-31 09:25:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 2

Maybe he gets off on looking at pictures of pregnant women. Why not get rid of the computer or the guy?

2006-12-31 09:25:42 · answer #9 · answered by Marmitemonster 2 · 0 1

Darlin, from what you've stated here; you may not be pregnant, but sounds like someone else could be.

Investigate - then exterminate. *W* Good luck!

2006-12-31 09:38:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Maybe he got some other woman pregnant, and he's hiding the truth from you ....

2006-12-31 09:29:06 · answer #11 · answered by ME 2 · 0 0

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