I am a rather shy guy but I have this best friend - Chris. We have been friends since grade school. We have played around some when we sleep over on the weekends. Since this is our last year in high school - should I make the move and tell him how I really feel about him and risk losing my friendship? I need advice.
2006-12-31 09:17:54 · 12 answers · asked by curiosity killed the ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Okies are you sure that Chris feels the same way about you. I'd try and see if there are any signs that he might be into me before making a move. However I am a firm believer in this: "When you love someone you tell them. Tell them before it's too late so you don't end up living in the regret of what ifs" If he's your best friend this shouldn't damage your relationship because I'm sure you can talk about everything...if he doesn't feel the same way yeah things will be a little awkward at first but you should both be able to move past that.
Blessings to you on this...
2006-12-31 09:28:41 · answer #1 · answered by Lucky 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I think you should express your feelings and let it go from there. Because he will either feel the same way or you risk losing a friend. Only because he is not that way and its an awkward position to be in and he will need time and space to digest the news. Good Luck.
2006-12-31 17:31:58 · answer #2 · answered by daisy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him what? You want to get married and have kids. Hopefully, Chris is really Christine. You aren't homosexual. You are a sex addict. And a very silly one at that. When did you decide you were gay? Ask your mom. She will tell you that you aren't. You are no different than a dog. Difficulty getting sex from a girl so you decide you are homosexual. You kids need to grow up. You don't have any homo genes in you. Just sick minds. No homo genes. You are making a poor choice.
2006-12-31 17:26:00 · answer #3 · answered by Jeancommunicates 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, does he know your sexual preference? Second, does HE also prefer the same sex? If both these questions answer yes, then definitely say something. A true friend will not desert you when you tell him your feelings. Even if he doesn't share the same preference, he should respect your honesty and possibly be a bit flattered.
2006-12-31 17:29:21 · answer #4 · answered by redhotssr@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If Chris is gay too than why not. But if your friendship means this much to you than I would say no.
2006-12-31 17:22:23 · answer #5 · answered by Duckie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't suggest jumping directly into mass indulgence, but a conversation over a couple of beers might be helpful too.
2006-12-31 17:21:25 · answer #6 · answered by oceanblue_007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to think about Chris and if he's into relationships moreover if he's into with guys. Maybe...but you should prod and give him hints first but don't be too blantly obvious...
2006-12-31 17:43:12 · answer #7 · answered by 41 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you think he is interested in you? Aww it would be so cute. I think you should tell him, be honest and truthful. And if it turns out he doesn't feel that way, then tell him you still want to be good friends.
2006-12-31 17:38:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think. you shouldnt tell him.
things might get a little akward.
but on the other hand. maybe hes
thinking the same thing. you just
need to do ur research. maybe he likes
you back. good luck :)
2006-12-31 17:21:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're never going to be happy unless you let your true self out. Just be yourself.
2006-12-31 17:20:27 · answer #10 · answered by ErinRae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋