My friend is feeling down, what can I text him to make him feel better?

Question

He's recently split up with his girlfriend, and I just had a weird conversation with him on MSN - he seems very down and I wanna cheer him up.

We are in different parts of the country.

He is all alone and I just wanna text him something that wil show him that I care, and that I will be there - as a friend - if he needs me.

I need something to inspire him for the New Year.

Answer 1

well i think that u should say that u will always be there for him no mater what happens and that if he needs any thing he just needs to let u know.

Answer 2

Ouch. How bad was the break up?
It really depends on how bad it was
Just tell him to move on.
Sure.. there will be other girls.
He'll get over it.
Life is about the downs and ups,
it can't be perfect.
He'll proabbly be hurting for a while.
When you can tell he's down,
Ask him if he wants to talk about it.
If he says yes,
let him start.
Don't
start asking questions,
and don't
just get in his face
it'll rub it in
in his eyes.
There is a girl out there for him,
just wait and see.
Just don't bring up the subject.
Let him.
You'll knwo when he wants to talk about it.
I dunno
Some people just wanna be left alone
If he tells you to,
just give him space.
He proabably wants to think.
And if your both on IM,
wait for him to IM or talk to you.
Cause if he doesn't
he probably doesn't want to talk to ANYONE.
So dont take it personally.
Just help him along the way
Make him feel like you will always be there
for you.

Hope this helps.

~Sarah

Answer 3

Tell him you will always be there for him no matter what and if he needs you then you're here even though you're in different parts of the country. I'm sure that'll cheer him up

Answer 4

You need to sujest a time and place where you can meet up so he can speak to you in person.texts are impersonal.A letter would be better if that were your only solution.Then he always has it to read over again.Just tell him that you are there for him..the words will spill on the paper once you start..Do it tonight for the morning post!! We all need to feel that someone cares for us .
Kaeylarae xxx

Answer 5

Let the person know that your still his friend. Let him know that its not the end of the world and he is a good person. If he shared some laughs with you, bring them up and remind him of those times. Let him know no matter what life brings, you'll be there even if its through text messaging or IM. Remind him of all of his qualities. Let him know that you care.

Answer 6

Don't text him. Fly over to his place and talk to him. When you talk to him, ask him if he wants to talk about the split. If he doesn't, than you could hang out with him and see if there's anything he does to cheer himself up that you could help him with. Not sex.

If that doesn't work, just go to the nearest bar and get hammered.

Answer 7

look the best thing when you`ve just broken up with someone is some good old fashioned meaningless sex its hot, raunchy, dirty and probably the best you`l have for a while, ( that`s if you are single) get round there girl with nothing on but sexy underwear and a coat of course. have a good night x

Answer 8

Well ,
Put yourself in his shoes.If you had just recently split up with someone , what would make you feel better ?
You are obviously close friends and you care about him.he cares about you too.So whenever you ar feeling down , he will return the favor . ( If he is smart that is )

Answer 9

tell him that u are always there for him if he just wants to hang out or talk. a great friend is there through the good times and the bad ones!

Answer 10

Just be a friend, be and ear to listen and a shoulder to cry on. Tell him what you would want to hear in that situation.