After a fight me and my partner have not been intamate for alomst 4 months. It all starter over a misunderstanding and a jealous feeling that cause many problems that have to be fixed. We love each othe rbut we feel like freinds more that lovers, I did and said thing that were hurtfull and vis versa. Do I wait and see what happens or do I do something about all this stuff
2006-12-31 08:36:45 · 5 answers · asked by tim k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
We have been together for 8 years and been married for 6. In the past 6 months there has been a lot of change it both of our lifes. In febuary my partner is going to court to fight a dwi conviction and in january I am going in to court to fihgt a former employee about an injury that has me unable to do what I am trainned to do. That is what is on our mind for right now, should I wait untill after the court dates or should I do something about it before we go. We love each other and say that we are not going anywhere but not sure hiw long to wait and se what happens
2006-12-31 08:48:44 · update #1
I would start with "I'm sorry" and see if you can work it out...maybe go to a marriage counselor. If you don't make the effort, you might as well call it quits. But if you're still friends (in your own words), hope isn't lost. I suggest you try. Start tonight...resolve on the new year to mend the relationship then give your partner a kiss.
2006-12-31 08:58:31 · answer #1 · answered by glitterkittyy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have only two options. Stay and work it out, or leave. People shouldn't let things go on for so long. How can you live like that? If you still love each other, let it go. If you can't, break up already.
2006-12-31 08:45:15 · answer #2 · answered by mamabear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love each other and want to work on your relationship, seek marriage counseling and really open up your eyes and ask yourself what did I do to hurt him? Do I want to continue to hurt him? If you want this to work, think of your faults, think of solutions and really ask yourself if you want to change your ways about the destructive behavior that is causing this. People can change. If you truly want to be a better person, believe in yourself, take the time to work on yourself and if you really want this, you will achieve it! Never give up on yourself or love. Take care!
2006-12-31 09:24:11 · answer #3 · answered by SillyKimmie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is it worth to you?
Is this relationship worth saving? If it is, fight for it with all you got!
What has waiting gotten you? Nothing. Wait longer and you will get more of the same.
2006-12-31 08:40:07 · answer #4 · answered by Crispy_Frog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do something about it my friend. if you dont, your partner will be in the arms of another lover.
2006-12-31 08:39:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋