he seems to really be pleased with me sexually but this bothers me.. whats wrong?
2006-12-31 08:27:23 · 11 answers · asked by marriedtoaworkaholic 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Keep your naked body in front of him. He won't have any time for looking at porn. Live is always better than Memorex unless he has some emotional problems.
2006-12-31 11:25:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a "guy thing". The chances are slim to zero that he will ever meet those women. Why be jealous over someone on a porno? Those women do things that he may find arousing that you and alot of other women probably would not do. It's fantasy for them. As far as magazines they are so computer enhanced that they appear flawless. Everyday women do not look like that. So relax, don't worry about it. Pop in a movie with your favorite hunk and enjoy!!
2006-12-31 17:36:26 · answer #2 · answered by BhitchyPrincess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys don't understand why porn bothers women. My boyfriend used to watch porn, and we would argue about it a lot. I felt that it was disrespectful to me, seeing as how we live together and we are planning to get married. AND it was interfering with our sex life. We would have sex a lot less often when he was watching porn. There are lots of reasons guys say they watch porn, and i think it is different for each guy. My boyfriend said it has nothing to do with the women in the porn, it is just watching the act of sex that turns him on, and when he watches porn he said its easier than having sex, and its a quick fix. I didn't like any of his anwers really. But we talked about it, and it took a LOT of time and arguing, but we finally came up with the conclution. We spiced up our sex life, and we added a video camera. NOW we can make our own pictures and videos, that way when he is horny when i'm not around he can watch those instead, because it makes me feel more comfortable. It has worked for us, and our relationship is stronger because of it. Good Luck, i hope everything works out for you.
2006-12-31 17:00:05 · answer #3 · answered by Stark 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong! Most men just like to watch porn. I think its the fact that they shouldn't that makes it even that much more appealing to them. Have you tried watching it together to see what he is attracted to exactly in the porn? Maybe you could make it something you do together and it won't bother you as much anymore.
2006-12-31 17:11:15 · answer #4 · answered by cavwife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah...I think there are many woman with that issue..everything in the bedroom is fine but he looks at porn...It hurts sometimes but then you put it into perspective...
Men are very visual...gals on the other hand can dream a bit and we are fine we are not as visual as men...
he hides it maybe because he knows how you feel..
My husband..looks every once in a while...but he also complements me and says wonderful things that make me feel good..so if voids that horrible feeling of the porn that he looks at...
2006-12-31 16:33:57 · answer #5 · answered by giveu2tictacs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just goes to show you that behind every hot chick there is a guy that is tired of her...
2007-01-03 00:41:52 · answer #6 · answered by Jay G 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well youd have to ask him it seems that guys like looking at things that they know they cant have you should sit down and talk to him about it and tell him how you feel
2006-12-31 16:47:18 · answer #7 · answered by advise_gal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in the same boat, I just do not get it. He says it has nothing to do with me, or our relationship, but i don't believe him.
2006-12-31 16:33:59 · answer #8 · answered by applecrisp 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should feel good about yo self cause if he needs videos to make him feel good he just doesnt tdhink he is good
2006-12-31 16:39:17 · answer #9 · answered by sexy_chocolate@yahoo.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok u r hot.so what r u HOT LIKE A pornstar???U HUSBAND IS BORED WITH YOUR LOOKS.SORRY ask him what he likes.
2006-12-31 17:42:08 · answer #10 · answered by john s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋