I need your help men.?

Question

If you are a male and are attracted to woman who have a good deal of weight on them what makes you attracted to them and what makes you stay.

Answer 1

Attraction for me is based on 'spark'; I pay more attention to how a woman carries and conducts herself than her size. Like most men I have a preferred body type (in my case it's short, medium weight, slightly bottom-heavy), but most of the women I've dated didn't conform to it.

Some overweight women have tremendous energy and spark, but a good many could better be described as dragging themselves around. I wouldn't go near any such woman (and she wouldn't come near me) because I'm energetic and we take one look at each other and know we won't get on. In a relationship a negative self-image is deadly, but negative self-images do come in all shapes and sizes. Women who are generally considered attractive aren't necessarily good company, because some of them believe that all they have to do in a relationship is look fabulous.

If you want to find men who prefer overweight women go to Jamaica (some, not all of them do).