Well, my boyfriend of over a year means alot to me. But there is this girl, who is a psycho w h o r e. Not even joking. ok, so her and my boyfriend haven't EVER had sex (we were both virgins before each other) and she is going around saying that she is pregnant with HIS child! It's not even possible! she has always had a big crush on him. She is my bf's brother's girlfriends cousin (lol) and she just tried to break those two up about a month ago! My boyfriend has a good job and a nice income, and she is just trying to get child support. Side note: He's only 19!
So my question is: How do I deal with this girl? do I talk to her and if I do what do I say? Or do I just ignore her and wait until it passes over?
2006-12-31 07:54:49 · 19 answers · asked by JessicaMLM 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
My boyfriend is very stressed out! He thinks I am going to break up with him because of this, but I defnintely am not going to... yes we went and talked to her mother but she is also delusional... but we are trying to get a DNA test set up in the near future.
2006-12-31 08:05:36 · update #1
she's not gonna just "get child support" from her own spoken word.
If anyone asks you if it's true, correct them politely.
2006-12-31 07:58:10 · answer #1 · answered by adklsjfklsdj 6 · 8⤊ 0⤋
If she is that bad everyone else already knows it and I'm sure don't pay too much attention to her. She can't get child support without one of three things(depending where you live I suppose it could be slightly different).
1-they are married
2-he claims the child as his
3-paternity testing
In the mean time your best bet, if you really do believe your boyfriend-and it sounds like you do trust him, is to just ignore her. If she's truly out to just cause trouble once she sees she's not getting a reaction from either of you she will more than likely stop.
Best of luck to you and your boyfriend~
2007-01-01 10:49:21 · answer #2 · answered by Betsy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore her. She's probably just trying to stir up some drama. She'll eventually stop being dumb. If she doesn't..and she's really pregnant..a DNA test can always be done..which will prove he's not the father. If you bite your tongue and don't say anything to her..you'll look classy and it'll just tick her off even more. =)
2006-12-31 15:59:36 · answer #3 · answered by Lindsey 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't get into the habit of believing everything that your boyfreind tells you because they do lie you know. And I don't think that this girl is causing all of this trouble for nothing. Let boyfriend take the DNA test and see what's what.
2006-12-31 20:17:34 · answer #4 · answered by Dyme Diva 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask the girl why she's saying that? Tell her you know that they didn't have sex because he was a virgin at the time. If that doesn't work get a restraining order.
2006-12-31 20:17:59 · answer #5 · answered by Blondy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she even TRYS to get the child support, simply have a paternity test done on the child, and that will settle that, if she is even really pregnant.
2006-12-31 16:01:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well if she continues to say its his after the child is born he should just insist on a paternity test to prove once and for all its not his.
2006-12-31 15:59:15 · answer #7 · answered by elaeblue 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
beat the crap outta her!! yay! violence!!! :P
just kidding. first find out if she is really pregnant. She could be lieing to break u guys up. and give it about another month or two b4 u break up with him. and what do u mean child support? if he cheated on u, then leave his butt!! once a cheater always a cheater. i know this for a fact.
2006-12-31 16:10:13 · answer #8 · answered by labonita451 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Tell him how you feel, reassure him that you're not going anywhere, and ignore her. Laugh at her, who cares, obviously not you two....right? Once she sees it's not working, she'll move on and try to ruin some other relationship.
2006-12-31 16:16:49 · answer #9 · answered by Patty O' Green 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
And you know he has never had sex with her how? Just because he SAYS he has never had sex with her doesn't make it true. Wouldn't it be funny if a DNA test proved otherwise...
2006-12-31 16:05:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋