My friend is having a movie/eat junk food/ spend the night and she wants me to come over to her house and spend the night. My parents said i can go but they don't want me too. They won't tell me the reason though. Should I go or Not go?
I really want to be friends with this girl and my mom & dad have met her parents and she said they were nice and they liked them. I really don't know wwhat to do. R they afraid of losing me? this has never happened before...please help me!!!
My other question is. My chemical romance sings a song and I dont know what it its called. there is a part in it and it goes."teenages scare the living sh** out of me" that all i know.. can u help meh???
Thanks ILY ALL (if you answered my questions =] )
2006-12-31 07:52:45 · 3 answers · asked by Lauren♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I think it's important that you keep the lines of communication open with your folks. If it bugs you that they don't want you to go, why not ask them what their feelings are and the reasons for them. Parents are always logical in their behaviour cos their feelings or protectiveness can sometimes get in the way of their judgement. Assure them as best you can, but do listen to whatever concerns they raise. They may be valid. There may be an inner voice saying something that should be listened to.
Then, if you think they're just anxious about losing special time with you why not make a date with each of your parents for quality time. Like say, 'hey mom, think we can go shopping for a new (_______ fill in the blank) sometime? You're always so good at spotting things that suit me'. Or ask your dad for help with a project. I think they'd really value that.
So my answer is - it's up to you whether you go. You should make that decision on your own after weighing up what your folks have to say etc. But either way, try to know what your folks are thinking and feeling.
2007-01-01 00:40:45 · answer #1 · answered by Lauren D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go but make sure you understand why your parents feel that way. You don't want to miss out on a chance to make a friend or lose a life experience. If I were in the situation, I would ask my parents why they didn't want me to go, and then I would find a way to fix their fears. Sometimes though you just have to do it and deal with the changes it might cause in the parent/child relationship.
The My Chemical Romance song is called "Teenagers" and it is on "The Black Parade" CD.
2007-01-02 03:05:57 · answer #2 · answered by enigmagirl5_2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hahaha those are like so different questtion
okay to the first one
i say go with the friend..cause its not everyday you and a friend are both free..and your parents will always be there.and you can always hang out with them. and part of life is having good social skills.
and idk about the 2nd question sry
2007-01-01 03:10:05 · answer #3 · answered by sleighbells 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋