you wait from him to take the initiative and talk about it but he doesn't and you are hurt and will never be the one to start talking about it because he is th eone who is wrong , what should you do ?
2006-12-31 07:33:38 · 8 answers · asked by homesick33 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you love him, talk to him, tell him how you feel. It doesn't pay to be high and mighty and not be the one to cut the silence, again if you love him, talk to him. He might be feeling the same way you are, that you are wrong where you are feeling that he is wrong.
Communication is better than silence. If you both decide that this is too big between you and not fixable, at least you have talked it out and came to that conclusion.
2006-12-31 08:05:29 · answer #1 · answered by Cat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not about who is right or wrong. You need to tell him how you feel and talk it out. My bf and I went through this alot earlier on. When he was wrong, I would come up to him and say (as lovingly as possible, "you know I love you, but when you said ___ it hurt me. I know you have your opinion on what's right but let's stop fighting and come to a compromise."
Sometimes our partners will be wrong and won't want to be the first to fix things. Sometimes, you'll need to be the one to start the conversation in order to find peace.
2006-12-31 15:40:38 · answer #2 · answered by A M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men will never start the conversation about them being wrong. 15 years later my husband still wont, but what I do is inform him that im pist and that it makes me even madder that he cant even say he is sorry when he to knows hes wrong. But I do make a note that if I am wrong I to say Sorry. It goes both ways. When my man realizes that its a problem that wont go away then he will talk to me. that's the only way to work things out.
2006-12-31 15:43:51 · answer #3 · answered by c_schreel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
instead of waiting for him to take the first initiative, why not tell him how he has hurt you. explain your feelings to him. you don't have to tell him he is wrong, but by explaining your pain to him, he should understand what he has done. he still might not apologize; but, at least he'll know how he has made you feel and he may think twice the next time you disagree to be a little more considerate and tolerant.
2006-12-31 16:16:46 · answer #4 · answered by try 2 help 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will bring it up but only after we have calmed down. I also don't start blamimg him i let him know i am hurt and why i believe he was in the wrong, it usually works and i get an apology.
2006-12-31 16:35:39 · answer #5 · answered by smurf_punky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well since you wont talk about it i guess just forget it
now if you will talk about it write him a letter telling him how you feel or email him or just sit down and talk to him theres nothing wrong with talking to him and besides it will make you feel better and who knows maybe its bothering him but since neither one of you will talk it could cause a problem in your relationship
good luck
2006-12-31 15:40:51 · answer #6 · answered by advise_gal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try talking after you both calm down for awhile never try to resolve anything when your both upset men don't like to admit when they are wrong neither do some women as far as that goes
2006-12-31 15:40:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could be the first to talk without compromising your opinion on who's to blame.
2006-12-31 15:37:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋