OK hears the deal, I got a job feel hard for the owner, we started sleeping together, about three years befor he left his wife, now hes finally left her, built his own home and moved my daughter and i in, is this wrong from an outsider looking in point of view?
2006-12-31 07:22:48 · 34 answers · asked by D lux 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Its wrong plain and simple, but thats just the way things work out sometimes. He wouldn't have been with you in the first place if things weren't bad with him and his wife already.
2006-12-31 07:25:13 · answer #1 · answered by Angela F 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
That question is wrong on so many different levels. Um, first of all you shouldn't be sleeping with your boss. Second, he is married. Third, married men do not leave their wives for little ho's like you. Wake the hell up and run from this whole situation. I guarantee you will be hurt the most out of this situation. You will lose your job eventually, you are considered a home wrecker, and you are being used by some azzhole who is having difficulty keeping his d*ck in his pants. What the hell is wrong with you? Don't you have any damn morals? You are gonna live with some azz who was nothing but a cheat and liar to his wife and not only that you are going to have your kid in there and this is the role model you want for your kid? You got problems.
2006-12-31 07:31:44 · answer #2 · answered by l'il mama 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
How many of these are you going to start? You didn't like the answers on the other post so you start a new one reworded.
To be a homewrecker would'nt I have to be the one to split the marriage up?
Asked by Dana R - 17 answers - Marriage & Divorce - 2 hours ago - Open
To be a homewrecker would'nt I have to be the one to split the marriage up?
Now I may have been sleeping with him three yrs befor the divorce, BUT the marriage was way over befor I came into the picture the wife had another realtionship w/another man, yet they stayed married for finicall reasons. He won't be moving anybody else into the new homw its in my name, and my daughter is ours he adopted her and he has always been daddy.
Come on you know you were wrong.
YES!!!! It is and was wrong. It was wrong in your other post as well.
2006-12-31 09:51:27 · answer #3 · answered by BhitchyPrincess 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmm. Is cheating wrong? Boy thats a tough one!!! I'm sure it isn't. In fact I'm sure you encourage your daughter to cheat in school, cheat her friends, and family, too. On the bright side, there's no reason to think that when he starts cheating on you, ( if he hasn't already) that you won't already have started cheating on him.
Bad marriages happen, and I won't judge the people who are stuck between a bad marriage and choosing to break up their family (with all the potential negative effects that will have on their kids). But I can judge their behavior. I can also judge the behavior of someone who sleeps with her married boss. What do you think having a crush on someone justifies doing?
Lets put it another way. When you decided to help your boss cheat, did you consider his marriage vows? Did you consider that you might get something out of it for yourself and your job?
The answer is of course you did, if you have half a brain. So, once you found yourself in a sexual relationship with a married man, did you find another job? Did you two determine a timeframe in which he had to "do the right thing" or did you just play the whore?
2006-12-31 07:45:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm amazed at the fact he actually left his wife. Normally he's just looking for a piece on the side.
I guess my question to you is: are you seeking other people to justify what you view as a morally questionable action on your behalf? If so, let it lie - only you are to answer for your actions, no amount of outside justification will ever settle your own mind. Make peace with yourself and move on.
2006-12-31 07:33:38 · answer #5 · answered by ab2li 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yes, it's never okay to sleep with a married man. Getting together later doesn't legitimize or excuse what went before. I would have no respect for a married man who didn't first end his marriage before looking for someone else.
2006-12-31 07:26:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I won't state my "moralities" here, but one small piece of advice and sorry it's not original but, oh so true: "if he'll do it with you - he'll do it to you."
Also, food for thought: is this the kind of example you want to set for your daughter and the kind of man you want to raise her and have her depend on? You will grow old, too and how will your little girl be left feeling?
2006-12-31 07:44:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, it doesn't really matter now whether it was wrong or not. Whatever happened, had already happened, so for now you need to concentrate on staying together, creating a happy family life, and being worried about who is going to be hired next.
2006-12-31 07:33:16 · answer #8 · answered by OC 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yes... thats very wrong..
Just because you started"feeling" for him... doesn't mean that you can have him... he was still married and that gives you no right to start sleeping together.... You're just encouraging him to leave his wife... and thats not right...
Blessings
Ur special.. God loves ya
2006-12-31 07:26:37 · answer #9 · answered by Mickey 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If you wouldn't mind if someone did the exact same thing to you, then I guess it's okay.
Now, how does that shoe fit? I bet it's too tight isn't it!?
I believe you knew the correct answer before you even asked it....There's really only one thing to do now.....Live with it.
2006-12-31 07:31:41 · answer #10 · answered by Mr. US of A, Baby! 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋