Question Details: I like him a lot and he talks to me all of the time. We've known eachother since the 2nd grade and now we're in the 7th, but you know we've always been good friends. If it wasn't me than i don't know who else, but we used to "Friendship" flirt a lot. He used to pull my bra strap and i'd pretend to hate it and he used to twittle with my fingers, and he used to play with my hair. We played footsee a lot and every now and then we'd give eachother a 'friendly' kiss on the cheek. But now it's like we're just friends. I mean, we've always been JUST friends but to you doesn't it sound like we acted like we were more than just that? Now he has a girlfriend, and i'm second on his list. I feel jaded and like i don't matter and i know that he felt something to. For him i would do anything. And i know that for me he'd do anything. This girl he's with doesn't realize that i'm the one who's REALLY first. How do i get him to understand that i LIKE him more than just a friend without betraying us?
2006-12-31 06:57:19 · 3 answers · asked by Sample ID 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
lead on, like do stuff that u usually would do in a more flirty way, show him that u really do care and that u r not just there to back him up or be a shoulder to cry on, show him that u REALLY want him and want to be number 1 on his list....i kinda know how u feel being in seventh grade is so tough....
2006-12-31 07:03:10 · answer #1 · answered by Simply Me© 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him. Trying to communicate this to him in a different manner will only make things more complicated.
2006-12-31 15:06:35 · answer #2 · answered by Earnesty_in_life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can be more freindly and just make him know your a real freind. he will probably relise you have something more than freindship. by the way i know how 7th grade feels!!
2006-12-31 15:13:36 · answer #3 · answered by sArAy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋