i luved a gal..she was willin 2 go out with me at once..n then l8er she tld tht she realized tht it was jst firndship..n tht she dono me well..4 luv..as we have;nt met in reality though we r in tha same city..n shez not willin 2..(mayb once shez my gf again..)...she new me frm long back..but then we din meet each other...n i kept on tellin luv..n she used 2 say...she dono..shez confused...n sumtimes..tht she loves me as such as she cares her own bro..but not a bf...n at times..she says tht i m better 4 her...n like tht..i tried 2 tell my luv again tday...n she was like..."dono.."...i can;t tink of a life without her..if shez not there..then i will surely kill myself..but now my firndz made me understand tth i shuld live 4 my mom atleast...mmmm...do u ppl tink tht she will luv me 1 day??...jst askin 2 have a hope...n also..pls suggest me sum ways by which u feel she will...fall 4 me again..?.?...plss
2006-12-31 06:44:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
You can't make someone love you. And if you change yourself to win someone over, in the end it will all fall apart because you've created a false situation. It never works unless you are who you really are and the other person accepts you for that very reason.
Live your life for you... not for anyone else, not even for your mom. If you live your life trying to make others happy you will eventually discover that you are unhappy.
Love has to be given of free will and cannot be coerced or forced.
Best you can do is say how you feel. If the other person doesn't accept it and keeps saying "I don't know", then odds are she doesn't feel the same.
Someone will come along that will love you for who you are. We just all need to be patient.
2006-12-31 07:12:50 · answer #1 · answered by blsmtfm1955 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, I really want to help, but this is hard to read.
2006-12-31 14:48:21 · answer #2 · answered by A M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's the grammar?
2006-12-31 14:46:22 · answer #3 · answered by KNC 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You are giving me a headache. Please use spell check & try again.
2006-12-31 14:47:04 · answer #4 · answered by IMHO 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
did you write her any notes/emails with that typing job? in english please!?
2006-12-31 14:49:55 · answer #5 · answered by dcarcia@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋