Would you blame your partner or are you the type who'll blame the other person? (Assuming the other person isnt your friend/relative). I never get why(seems like mostly women) get so angry with the other person and stay with their partners as if they are helpless. If this is you can you please explain why?
2006-12-31 06:30:50 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It's not me, but I think what happens is the one who's been cheated on doesn't want to blame the significant other because he/she still loves him/her and doesn't want to admit that he/she could do something so wrong. It's a form of denial and allows the one cheated on to go on from there.
2006-12-31 06:34:59 · answer #1 · answered by Happy Wife 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not all women who are cheated on, blame the other woman for the break up, though obviously she did have something to do with it. It's the husband who is responsible. A husband owes his loyalty to his wife. The other woman? She has no responsibility to anyone. Blaming her is pointless, putting the blame on the cheating husband is the right thing to do, but...there are women who are afraid to do that, fearing perhaps a loss of pride, income, self esteem. Most women have more self worth now, they would rather be alone for awhile and poor, than live with someone who cares so little for them.
2006-12-31 06:39:06 · answer #2 · answered by teacupn 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I blame the partner and then I leave - no one gets a second chance life is too short to be cheated on.
2006-12-31 06:33:32 · answer #3 · answered by Walking on Sunshine 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Both are to blame and sometimes the other person is ruthless and psycho, especially if the woman knows he's married. In my case, the psycho wanted his used underwear back and insisted that they should be "friends" even after the affair was over. How can that person be blameless if he/she knowingly assaulted the family unit?
Again both are to blame, especially the spouse, but if it hasn't happened to you, you couldn't possibly understand.. Hope you don't ever have to go through that. It's not fun.
2006-12-31 06:36:38 · answer #4 · answered by pinniethewooh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's tough. It is hard to determine how the situation should be handled because a lot of the times the situation is what determines whether things should be worked out or if two people should go their separate ways. I always told myself if I was with someone who cheated on me, even once, I would be gone in a second. However, now I am not sure because if my fiance now cheated on me, if he was REALLY sorry about it, I would give him another chance but keep my eyes open. " Screw me over once shame on you, screw me over again then same on me." I also think in situations like the one I see my aunt in how her husband cheats on her all the time, and beats her as well.... that it is stupidy to be with the man... I guess it just depends on how much you value the man, and whether he seems sincerely sorry or not. Hope that helps : )
2006-12-31 06:40:28 · answer #5 · answered by swtnsxy4life 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The blame is on both parties, although the other person may be blameless if they did not know they were getting involved with someone who was cheating.
I make no excuses for a cheater...the person in the committed relationship is in the wrong, period...the other person may or may not be.
2006-12-31 06:42:41 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What is going around comes around, I say. as nicely, "dishonest" is once you cheat on the significant other to whom you have a committment with. The "different woman" or "different guy" is in basic terms a sprint of relaxing on the part, except the cheater leaves their modern-day spouse/husband/significant other and committs to an unique relationship with their lover. Then its a case of go your hands and desire for the perfect, reason you already comprehend your significant other is a cheater. Like I stated, what is going around comes around. additionally, if the cheater has no longer left/divorced their significant other, then that exhibits that the significant other remains the traditional relationship, for despite reason, they are nevertheless at the same time, in spite of what the cheater tells the sweetheart. the sweetheart has NO suitable to make demands. the sweetheart, of direction, is loose to learn some morals and circulate on ought to they no longer in basic terms like the region.
2016-11-25 03:03:24 · answer #7 · answered by kirk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd blame my partner because they are the one who cheated.
2006-12-31 06:33:19 · answer #8 · answered by Joe Prosnick 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would blame my partner, they are the one who is hurting me in the end, not the other person they could care less about your feelings.
2006-12-31 07:25:30 · answer #9 · answered by gigi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look to each it,s own some people don,t want to see the truth about the partner they are with . or they to a fraid they will leave them for some one other than them . me i blam the one i with andshow that guy to the door .life is to short to be with a guy that wants to be tray me that way .be sides this partner loved you he or she would never think a bout hurting you this way .thereis allways some one elseout there that will be faith full to you if this partner wont be
2006-12-31 06:51:31 · answer #10 · answered by judy g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋