2006-12-31 06:28:46 · 17 answers · asked by melvin-miller@sbcglobal.net 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
from my personal experience, no. but that is because i have been hurt way too many times by one person. maybe people can change their ways, but i have never seen it. i think once you hit a certain age, you are the way you are. and changing your ways isnt an option anymore.
trust is a big deal. once its broken, its harder than hell to regain, and even if you do, there is always that little voice in your head telling you that this person doesnt keep promises.
2006-12-31 06:32:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when someone makes a promise, and than ignores it or doesn't come through, u may resent and not trust anything they say after that. unkempt promises have a way of resurfacing whenever there is an argument, without being able to trust that person there really is no relationship.
2006-12-31 14:38:27 · answer #2 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Violates a promise? Violate is a strong word, how does one Violate a promise. we all have broken a promise, and we can be trusted so why cant they
2006-12-31 14:53:11 · answer #3 · answered by livelovelaugh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At first, going back to trusting them can be very difficult, but, depending on the violation, it is possible with time.
2006-12-31 14:40:09 · answer #4 · answered by Earnesty_in_life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes awhile to build that trust back, but I would hope that we are forgiving people and realize that everybody makes mistakes. If this person has no remorse about his failure to keep his promise
then you may be dealing with 2 issues. Good Luck
2006-12-31 14:38:32 · answer #5 · answered by Hear2Help 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not for a while. I guess you would have to put them under the test first, like with some little confidences, and see how they handle it. If all goes well , then I would trust them again. Remember.....First time their fault, Second time your fault.
2006-12-31 14:52:57 · answer #6 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry hun, once a cheater always a cheater. take them at their word now and they will just conive more sneaky methods as to avoid being caught next time.
do criminals stop committing crimes?
and it's like the old saying goes
fool you once, shame on her
fool you twice, shame on you!
no trust, no second chance, done
2006-12-31 14:36:04 · answer #7 · answered by brandylyn_kay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you really can't. Some deserve a second chance......but it depends on the promise that was made.
2006-12-31 14:35:15 · answer #8 · answered by luv_dec21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone posted this earlier.. about trust. It's like virginity. Once you lose it, you never get it back.
2006-12-31 14:32:09 · answer #9 · answered by pinniethewooh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we all some times don,t keep a our promise that do,t mean you can,t trust them. but when they start lieing to you thats a nother thing
2006-12-31 14:34:51 · answer #10 · answered by judy g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋