It's NEVER okay for her or you to visit people you have had a sexual relationship with.
2006-12-31 05:46:17
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answer #1
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answered by Anonymous
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kick her to the curb it can only get worse once a cheater/liar always a cheater/liar...not to mention her lying is not a way to start off a marriage especially if you have only been married for 6 months...maybe years down the line but, obviously if she did it this soon then something is wrong and who's to say she is not lying about going to lunch maybe she will confess in another month that they actually did not go to lunch and instead went to a motel...
2006-12-31 05:58:16
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answered by joekelem 1
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No it's not OK for a spouse to go to lunch or anywhere with the ex but court "AGAINST" the ex.
Communication and trust needs rebuilding here. She shouldn't have lied to you unless she's hiding something.
Why are they communicating anyway? They shouldn't be...put an end to it.
2006-12-31 05:55:34
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answered by Khandi 4
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The going out to lunch was not the bad part. The feeling she had to lie to you was.
Just the fact that she lied about who she was with seems to me suspiciouse.
If it was on the up and up why did she have to lie about it? I feel the lie shows shes hiding something and you may want to be carefull.
2006-12-31 05:52:08
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answered by just_trump_my_ace 2
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You cant really say that she is cheating, she probably doesnt want you to just feel bad about it. After all it was just lunch. Just talk to her properly and ask her why she didnt tell you the truth.
2006-12-31 06:47:03
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answered by Anonymous
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If she lied once...she will lie again. If nothing happened why didn't she tell you the truth to begin with? Sounds to me like it was more then lunch they had especially if you could feel that something was wrong.......that was her guilt.
2006-12-31 05:52:51
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answered by digorbat11 2
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Sounds like your the new exman...kick her butt to the curb before you own a house together..or have kids...this is not a woman who should be the mother of your children....She is not ready to be married..
2006-12-31 06:00:12
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answered by Frann 4
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If she were up front and open it would have been okay.
That she lied about it made it not okay. What was it being hidden
for that's the question.
2006-12-31 06:05:06
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answered by Flagger 6
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No defintly not it brings up a number of issues trust as well as respect
2006-12-31 06:05:05
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answered by christine g 1
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she has no need to see her ex,,he is past you are supposed to be present and future and her lying about it makes it seem doubly worse.
2006-12-31 05:50:11
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answered by lex 5
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