My wife used to have a high sex drive before she got pregnant, now 2 1/2 months later she still isnt having it. We have had sex twice since then. She wants to be able to want it more, but just cant. Is there anything she can do to increase her sex drive?
2006-12-31 05:37:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
have her talk to her doctor!
2006-12-31 05:50:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A woman who is preggo has a lower sex drive during the first and third trimester. During the first trimester its very hard to feel sexy when you are nauseous, during the third, her body is getting ready for the process of giving birth. Don't worry though, the second trimester is going to be unbelievable. Most women have a higher sex drive during the second trimester, because their bodies are more used to the pregnancy hormones and they haven't gotten so big yet that it's awkward to move, also the increased blood flow to that area makes her more sensitive and most times thats a good thing.
Hang in there IT WILL GET BETTER!
2006-12-31 05:45:08 · answer #2 · answered by whois 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 03:00:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's pretty normal after just having a baby. I think you should go slow. Have someone keep the baby overnight and take her out on a romantic date. Maybe a candlelit bubble bath when you get home. Build-up is key. Make her feel sexy and hot, tell her. Do things you know she likes. And don't rush right to sex. Lay on the bed and just kiss her. Make out like teenagers. Just remember to go slow. And whatever you do don't pressure her. It'll all come back, give it time.
2006-12-31 05:44:29 · answer #4 · answered by Amanda W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At least she wants to have it more, that's a great start but if it isn't in her you gotta feel for her. I suggest walking and running around a nice park with nature. Get the blood going. That'll do the trick. Just get out of the house more with her and don't bring it up all the time. That stresses out women big time. Let it just happen. Like I said at least she wants to.
2007-01-01 09:46:01 · answer #5 · answered by J t 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be patient, I was in the same spot where you are now 2 yrs ago it took almost 6 months for things to get back to normal, my advice to you is leave her alone and tease her a bit by walking naked around the house or simply become a bit more sexier for her let her *** to you! good luck!
2006-12-31 07:36:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's pretty nornal, you need to be understanding and patient.
Make sure she gets plenty of rest.
This message is for her:
Masturbation is a good way to discover and relate to your own sexuality if you are timid about bringing your passion forth with your partner. Lonnie Barbach's book "For Yourself," or others like it on the market, may help as it guides you through exercises for developing a positive relationship to your sexuality. If you are unable to reach orgasm on your own or with your husband, consider a consult with your gynecologist to assess whether there is any physical cause for this problem.
2006-12-31 06:22:22 · answer #7 · answered by Sabine 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've had this same problem since giving birth 7 years ago. I will be watching for an answer....sorry I don't have one for your wife.
2006-12-31 05:40:43 · answer #8 · answered by dmgmck1999 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that doctors usually advice to keep it going to keep the opening from shrinking so it will be easier during childbirth.
2006-12-31 06:20:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is what happens when you have kids. Some women get it back, most don't. See a doctor, she may need hormone adjustments.
2006-12-31 05:40:35 · answer #10 · answered by USA Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she's pregnant now you just have to wait....but as long as that doctor says it okay then you can.....i'd suggest kissing her alot more and alot of green chocolate...haha...and the afro stuff aphrodesiacs....i can't spell it sorry
i think the 3 trimester is when she gets really....into the mood
2006-12-31 09:25:10 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋