2006-12-31 04:50:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I was 19 he was 19, we married at the age of 23, started having kids at the age of 27, and divorced at 34... My perspective on life was logical. We did everything the right way, the way society said we should, we waited 4 years to marry, waited another 3 years to have kids because we wanted to make sure the marriage was secure haha. what a joke, and a lot of wasted time. Now my perspective is to enjoy every day, live minute by minute, because we don't know how much time we have. I follow my heart and just try to be happy.
2006-12-31 04:59:13 · answer #1 · answered by tootsie38 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first time I was 17, he was my childhood sweet heart, i wanted the Fairy Tale he wanted to be a Dentist. We never discussed any of this. I got pregnant, had a boy he divorced me. 1 yr later.( he didn't want kids) We had not discussed this eather. At 21 I met my now X he was 18 we dated for a couple of yrs, he was a party animal , so I dumped him. We met up again when i was 30 and at 32 I married him. He had stopped drinking. we had 4 children were married 23 yrs and now divorced. My perspective on life is keep a positive attitude towards it, Alot of storms are comming your way.
2006-12-31 10:04:05 · answer #2 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was really young when I first met him. I was 13. But as I got older we started dating around the time I was 16 and my persepective was different then because I was a selfish teenager, but he understood that and we figured out we wanted to stay together no matter what had happened before. So after 8 years we are still together.
2006-12-31 04:55:32 · answer #3 · answered by carmadsmom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the first spouse, I was in my early 20's, I thought life was a breeze and we had the world by the tail; wanting to make lots of money and had big dreams.
Now ; 2nd and last spouse (in my early 30's) life is what you make it. Live right, love hard, nothing is to be taken for granted.
2006-12-31 04:55:32 · answer #4 · answered by Khandi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 26, she was 17 when we met..
I was 27, she was 18 when we married...
Perspective changed when we married...
Monogamy became the way of life...
2006-12-31 04:54:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 20. She was 17. I was in the Marine Corps, and one horny son-of-a -gun, so needless to say, my perspective was to have fun. I did, only I didn't use safety measures. She got pregnant, we got married....and then divorced 25 years later.
2006-12-31 05:32:46 · answer #6 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well we meet when she was 13 and i was 15 that was in 1980
and it was love at first site for both of us.I did not think we would be together for ever back then but hoped it and pretty much we have a couple of years apart since then but pretty much we have been in each others lifes and still love each other very much
2006-12-31 04:57:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fourth of July, was a great day to meet the man I'd spend the rest of my life with.
2006-12-31 04:59:06 · answer #8 · answered by Celeste P 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋