me and my ex have been seperated for over a year now and i still have feelings for him....but i don't want heartache that goes with it....very bad things have happened.....but i also have went on a few dates here and there ....but no one meets my standerds......and a lot of them don't want the responsibility of children.....and i make it clear that they do have a father and that isn't why i am seeing what they are about.....i do not want some one that will not think that i am out for a new daddy for my children and no i do not get them involved with any one i am dating......its not fare for them to get attached and the man just leave them.....where i do know that a lot of girls want some one to replace the father...i am not like hat at all.....i just want some one for me....how do i find that person....and i am very pick when it comes to men and my children....please help on this situation
2006-12-31 04:36:51 · 12 answers · asked by wendy p 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
don't be in too big of a hurry to find Mr. right, get to know them, check out their past, get to know them for who they really are. don't settle for the first good looking face, choose wisely even if it takes awhile longer to find him. don't pick the first one, as u may not be happy with him.
2006-12-31 13:39:04 · answer #1 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, with your grammar you won't find anyone with any intellect. Unless of course that is your preference. Your standerds LOL it's standards
someone - one word!! and it's a new father for my children. daddy sounds so ghetto.
Now you must be sending out the message that you are seeking for a father and it's obvious because you mentioned that other girls are doing this. There not, you ARE. I read your entire passage and you seem very annoying. Stop focusing so much on a relationship. Build a life for you and your children. Please go back to school and work on you. You are not ready for anyone yet. Today go and buy this book "Faith in the Valley" by Iyanla Vanzant. It will help you improve yourself for the new year! If you need to vent email me direct.
2006-12-31 12:47:07 · answer #2 · answered by sexy c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am going through the same crap but I would have to say that an ex is an ex for a reason. It will take time to find someone new but I promise that it will happen for you. I am addicted to my ex because I remember all of the good times but then I gotta remember that bad stuff too. I know it seems rough because of the holiday but move on and it will get better. Focus on yourself and you kids...someone better will come in a sweep you off your feet. It takes time and an open mind/heart. Good luck!
2006-12-31 12:40:56 · answer #3 · answered by LenaRose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to move on is to get involved with activities that keep you and your mind busy. Stop comparing men to you ex. and maybe you need to stop being so picky and look at the person from a different direction.
2006-12-31 12:42:34 · answer #4 · answered by Snicklefritz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont go looking for it and it will come to you. The most wonderful things can happen when you arent looking for it.
Focus on being a happy well adjusted person and you will have no problems.
Just be who are you that is all you can do.
2006-12-31 13:13:35 · answer #5 · answered by Perplexed 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop looking for a start, concentrate on you and the children, the right man will come when he is meant to (excuse that). A man is for fun not for life. Oooops done it again.
2006-12-31 12:46:40 · answer #6 · answered by littlewelshrarebit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
match.com sounds about right. There you will meet someone who loves children and has the same morals/passions that you do. Good luck!
2006-12-31 12:44:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are doing a good job and you should eventually
find one who meets your standards & qualifications..
Then the question becomes..
Do you meet his standards & qualifications..
2006-12-31 12:39:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep doing what you're doing. Sometimes you have to kiss alot of frogs before you find your prince.
2006-12-31 12:51:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
EHarmony.com or Match.com
They have you fill out a questionnaire and they match you to people who you are compatible with.
2006-12-31 12:41:18 · answer #10 · answered by Lynnemarie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋