i am a retired stay at home dad, i make 3000 a month and pay for the mortgage, utilities and food, my wife works, i clean the house, do the shopping, cooking and laundry and take care of our 3 boys since they were born, i quit doing her laundry because she yelled at me for putting the tops with the thin straps in her drawer with the tank tops, now it just gets piled up, am i wrong
2006-12-31 04:36:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If anything happens with your marriage....will you marry me? I hope she appreciates you and all you do....no don't do her laundry...you do enough
2006-12-31 04:41:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't find anything wrong with what your doing. If your doing all the work in the house, then she should find alittle time to help out and do her own laundry. Espcially since she is so dead set on having her laundry done a certain way. And for the record, I don't think is was very nice of her to yell at you, since you are doing most of the work.
2006-12-31 04:43:05 · answer #2 · answered by Kiata 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, you were only trying to help, tell her if she cant do it that you will because your tired of seeing it piled up. or do the laundry and leave her stuff on the bed so that when she comes home she can put them away. shes very lucky to have a guy like you. some won't even do that much. happy new year.
2006-12-31 05:18:02 · answer #3 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Viewing this from both sides, no one is really wrong. She is being fussy while you don't have time to be so meticulous. Tell her that you have enough on your plate but continue to do her laundry- just don't separate her tops- let her.
2006-12-31 04:42:18 · answer #4 · answered by Teddy Bear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt have liked being yelled at
but if you do everything else, SURELY she could find some time to do her own laundry the way SHE likes it?
2006-12-31 04:39:35 · answer #5 · answered by Mr_wall2005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are doing all you can, and a lot more then you should, actually, but if she doesn't like the way you do laundry then let her do it herself.
2006-12-31 04:42:12 · answer #6 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no your not wrong although it seems to me there is more wrong in this marriage than what meets the eye. For the two of you to be arguing over something this petty, something else is wrong..
2006-12-31 04:40:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
regardless of what else you do around the house, the minutes that someone complains about the way you do their anything, it's time for them to start doing it themselves.
2006-12-31 04:46:39 · answer #8 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, she should appreciate what you are doing and let small things lik that slide.
Just fold her clothes and let her put them away.
2006-12-31 04:40:29 · answer #9 · answered by Khandi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude get a life u do ur work and she does hers and the common things split them half n half
2006-12-31 04:50:02 · answer #10 · answered by suf_h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋