Acussed my partner of cheating on me in october, nothing happened, In the last 3 months with have not been intamate and have had several arguments about that day. We both have other problems that are also going on and we put our realisonship on the back burner for the timebeing. We love each other and are going to work everything out I HOPE? Allthing point to just wait and see. Am i just a sitting duck or should I do something.
2006-12-31 04:04:17 · 6 answers · asked by tim k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
In febuary my partner is going to court to see if we are going to get cusdoty of a the 15 year old and that is the most important thing on our plate right now. And the person that I acussed of cheating is getting involved in a new bussiness and that is taking up all of the time that I think that is why I have the problems that I have
2006-12-31 04:15:51 · update #1
Try couples counseling.
She probably can't get over the fact that you don't trust her./
2006-12-31 04:06:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never put your relationship on the back burner, it should be first and and the most important, you are starting a new year, apologize to each other, forgive and love each other like never before. You can never do nothing and expect something to happen and it will be ok. Always try to do something so that you can at least say I tried.
2006-12-31 04:10:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, did you get to the bottom of why you accused them of cheating in October? Were they able to quiet all of your suspicions and doubts? You need to make a choice of whether to let those thoughts go and move on or continue to bring it up over and over. It sounds like whatever answer your partner gave you did not convince you they weren't cheating if it keeps coming up. You really need to find out for sure if they did or did not so you know how to move on, and whether to move on alone or with them.
2006-12-31 04:09:43 · answer #3 · answered by Peace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should do everything to prove that you trust your partner. Let them know that you're sorry for accusing them of cheating....that you just had a bad feeling and didn't know what it was. Everyone is allowed to make mistakes. Let them know you're sorry and you want to move forward with the relationship.
2006-12-31 04:07:41 · answer #4 · answered by Michelle M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to do what's best for you and move forward.
2006-12-31 04:07:18 · answer #5 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not enough information here to tell you...sorry....did he cheat...what other stuff is going on...are you living together...still seeing each other....just not enough info
2006-12-31 04:07:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋