Whats a good argument for having a affair?

Answer 1

There is never a good argument for having an affair. If you are unhappy in your relationship, either work on the problem and find a solution or end it and move on. It's just not fair to the other person.

Answer 2

There is not any good argument to have an affair,if you fell that you need to go be with some else need to be up front with the person you are with and let them know up front ,because if you do have the affair you are setting your self up for a whole alot of pain because you could loose them both in the long wrong.

Answer 3

There shouldn't be BUT it makes a difference the type of person you are.

A couple can go about handling it the wrong way, which in fact is what can happen alot of times-----I've been there.

I saw a problem in my Friend's BF/GF relationship. My Friend thought her relationship with her BF was going fine, UNTIL some "Hussy" entered into this guy's life! The Tramp was chasing my Friend's guy, and she knew good and well that he was already in a live-in relationship with my Friend.

Turned out, my Friend had a talk with her man and asked him not to associate with the Tramp, well his response was that they were only friends but from what I understood the tramp was doing the flirting and who knows what else........................

My Friend's man was defensive and claimed they weren't doing anything and still he wouldn't call this supposed-friendship off with the Hussy, and my Friend was left to put up with it since she didn't have a job nor means to get out and support herself and the KIDS at home!


As a result, my Friend met a guy who cared for her and they started out Friends then they clicked!

Bottom line, when people handle a situation the only way they know how, and they lose love and respect for the other person they WERE serious about at one time AND years too, I might add, and someone ELSE comes along when ONE is NOT looking, I can say it's just one of those things in life that happen! My friend is happy now with the guy who showed her cared about her!


And, that to me is a good argument when you lose ALL respect and feelings for another who won't compromise!

I stand behind it too! I watched this happen and I don't blame my Friend! More POWER to her too!

Answer 4

There is no good argument for having an affair other than I think it's safe to assume you no longer love or choose to share your life with that person. Better to break if off and come clean prior to cheating.

Answer 5

Argument?

I think the only argument for having a affair is no sex. This is the most vital part of a marriage that would cause somone to flee.

Then one should end the relationship they are legally in.

Answer 6

if you are married there is not good answer for an affair but if you are having one you need to think about leaving cause it will be bad in the long run.

Answer 7

There is NO good argument for having an affair. Having an affair is wrong. It's really sad that people forget about their wedding vows where it says forsaking ALL others, meaning that they will remain faithful to their spouse.

GROW UP

People like you make me sick.

Answer 8

Are you the person married or you having an affair with a married person??? But anyways, sorry I don't think there ever is a good reason.

Answer 9

If your spouse is not interested in sex or affection of any sort, can't handle money, is a total slob, never consults with you on any major decision, basically just sleeps and eats, and can't carry on a conversation, then do what I did and go looking for someone else. I wasted 13 years of my life on someone like that, and it is finally over, thank God!

Answer 10

There really is not a good argument.