(im a virgin)my sister doesnt believe me so shes taking me to planned parent hood to get check and i want to know how do they find out. my boyfriend has stuck "it" in but only about 2 inches...are they going to find out? how? is there anything i could do?
2006-12-31 03:43:45 · 37 answers · asked by yarkansas 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Theres a hymen thats borken when you have sex, thats why they say pop your cherry. Usually there needs to be deep penetration to happen and you would feel it and might bleed a little.
2006-12-31 03:46:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 3⤋
They will check internally,they might check with fingers or from just a visible aspect. Either way u are still considered a virgin if he only stuck "it" in 2 inches. to lose your virginity the boy needs to go all the way in to pop through completely, u would know when that happens because it really hurts. Dont worry about it,they wont find out. good luck!
2006-12-31 04:57:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They can take you to planned parenthood, but they will not tell your sister...or anyone else...anything about you unless you tell them to. They will not check you without your consent. Don't let her bully you into anything...you are a young woman and what you do or don't do with your body is YOUR business, not anyone else's.
There is NO full proof test on virginity, NO doctor can tell if you are or are not a virgin. I assume your sister is looking for the lack of a hymen, but many women loss their hymen before they are sexually active.
Your sister is being ridiculous, don't worry...
btw, any sexual intercourse, even two inches, is sex. You are no longer a virgin. However, I suggest you and your boyfriend wait to have sex until you are both mature enough to understand ALL of the consequences and deal with them appropriatly...you can get pregnant even if the penetration is not complete and even if he does not ejaculate inside of your vagina! Stop messing around or you risk pregnancy or disease!
2006-12-31 03:49:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
Um in the definition of things, you're technically not a virgin anymore, since there has been penetration however...
What planned parenthood usually checks for is to see if your hymen is still in tact. If it is you're a virgin. Simple enough right? Wrong.
You hymen can break in other ways aside from having sex. Say if you fall of the peddle of your bike and hit yourself on the seat this can break the hymen, using a tampon etc. There are many factors...
So to sum it all up, they can check to see if you're a virgin, however the only REAL information it gives them is that yes your hymen is in tact, or no it's not. If it's not, they can't tell you how it was broken.
Good Luck to you.
2006-12-31 03:49:38 · answer #4 · answered by flycreature 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
While i will agree you are no longer a virgin, it is not possible for them to find out that you are not for certain. Not all women are born with a hymen, it depends on the individual person. Your sister seems to need a trip to planned parenthood for herself so she might learn something about reproduction... but thats beside the point. Don't let her get to you, they cant tell you are not unless you admit it yourself. Good Luck. Blessed Be.
2006-12-31 03:58:44 · answer #5 · answered by Ravenfire 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first off no Dr can disclose anything to anyone else about you, they have to get your permission...especially planned parenthood they are all about a patients privacey
and what they "check" for is to see if your hymen is torn, which if you are active IE sports, bike riding, gymnastics things like that
your hymen tears naturally from all the activity the lining which they supposedly check to see if you are sexually active
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This is from the planned parenthood site itself
Confidentiality
All of NAPP's services are provided in the strictest of confidence. We will not release information to anyone who is not authorized in writing by the patient.
This means that no one--not even your parents or your partner--will know about your visit to Planned Parenthood. Still nervous? Read the FAQ below.
Q. Can my mother find out that I'm a patient at Planned Parenthood?
A. No. We will not release any information about you to anyone, including your mother, without your written authorization.
Q. Can my partner pick up my birth control pills?
A. Your partner only be allowed to pick up your birth control pills if we have your permission to do so. If your partner tries to pick up your pills without your permission, we will not release any information about you. We will not even confirm that you are a patient at Northern Adirondack Planned Parenthood.
Q. I have moved and I would like to transfer my records from Planned Parenthood to my new doctor. Will my records show that I had an abortion two years ago?
A. No. Medical history related to abortion will not be released unless you specifically request that we do so.
Call and talk to them
they are usually really nice
www.plannedparenthood.org
I have a question, how old is she that she is telling you need to see the dr ? and who is paying for it ? it's not free anymore
2006-12-31 03:57:17 · answer #6 · answered by drkbabe73 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is possible to tell. If your hymen is broken then you are considered not a virgin. They will proabably give you a pap exam which involves inserting a speculem into the virgina...
But I've never known of cases where someone takes someone to the gyn to see if they are a virgin or not. That information is confidential and they will only tell your sister if you consent to her knowing or being in the examining room.
2006-12-31 03:56:52 · answer #7 · answered by Cocoabutta98 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell your sister to mind her own business..
There is a little membrane called the hymen that
partially seals/closes the entry to the vagina in virgins.
This little membrane is torn during entry of a penis
however it can be torn / damaged by other things
during exercise & activites other than sexual penetration.
Just because your hymen does not appear intact during
a medical exam does not necessarily mean you have had sex.
All doctors know this...You simply deny having sex and there is no proof you have...
2006-12-31 03:56:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Normally, they would check if your hymen is broken. If it isnt then you are definitely a virgin. However, a girl can break her hymen just by horseriding or doing gymnastics so it isnt an absolute test.
You need to tell your sister to back off and mind her own business. She has no right to get you checked against your will. That is seriously abusive and you need to tell her so!
2006-12-31 03:48:41 · answer #9 · answered by penny century 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend "stuck it in," you're not a virgin. Some gynecologists consider "virginity checks" to be unethical and will refuse to do them. However, it is possible to look at the hymen to see if it is intact. The problem is that things other than sex can break the hymen (accidents, inserting a tampon, pelvic exam).
2006-12-31 03:47:23 · answer #10 · answered by Nicole B 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I hate to break it to ya but if your bf stuck it in, even only 2 inches, your not a virgin any more. Thats like saying someone is only a little bit pregnant.
2006-12-31 03:47:49 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋