Ok here`s the deal me and my friend like the same guy but...
I haven`t told her i like him but she told me.I found out that he
likes her so should i just back of and just be friends with both of
them?
2006-12-31 03:42:42 · 13 answers · asked by Ichigo Momoya 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Yes. If they both like each other then it's time for you to find someone that will like you back! Good Luck! '-)
2006-12-31 03:46:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok listen to me u are in the same situation my other friends were in they both liked the same guy but the guy liked the blonde not the brunette. the blonde told the brunette that she liked him and the brunette kept it a secret from the blonde. then one day the brunette told the blonde that she liked the boy the blonde was like o ok. the next day the boy asked the blonde out and she said no cause one of my friends like u so i dont wanna hurt my friend. so the boy kept asking her out like almost everyday so finally the blonde said yes and she didnt tell anyone but me that they were going out. so basically she never told the brunette that liked the kid that she was going out with him. 3 months later the blonde couldnt take the guilt no more so she told the brunette and the brunette fliped out only because she kept it a secret. the blonde broke up with the boy and the two girls friendsship was ruined. today me the blonde the brunette and the boy are all still friends, but the friendship between the blonde and the brunette is still not as close as it was before this boy. this happened about a year ago. so today the boy is still trying to get the blonde to go out with him but she wont cause me and the brunette like him and were trying to get him to like us but its no use. so alls im saying is ur better off staying away from the guy so u dont ruin ur friendship no guy is worth fighting for.
2006-12-31 03:55:02 · answer #2 · answered by britnit99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sort of. U cant MAKE someone like u. But just make sure that when u r around both of them together that ur not showing off. Just be urself. Also wen ur around both of them, don't try and flirt with the guy that might mess you and your best friends friendship up.
I hope I helped u
Jamie
my e-mail address pinkk_panther04@yahoo.com
2006-12-31 03:52:20 · answer #3 · answered by pinkk_panther04 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes...back off. She told you first so I think he's off limits. I wouldn't tell her either. You wouldn't want to give her a chance to become jealous of you and him spending time together. Just play it safe. If their relationship doesn't take off then let her know that you had feelings for him before they started dating. I think it's ok to remain friends with the guy definitely.
2006-12-31 03:48:14 · answer #4 · answered by Michelle M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea. That's best to just be friends with them both . Don't let the jealousy bug bite you. There will be other guys ( i know, there millions of others in the world) and probably cuter ones. So be happy for your friend and wish her good luck on her first date.Also be there when she needs you during the relationship if they have one. Good luck to all of you
2006-12-31 05:03:20 · answer #5 · answered by Mrs.Beckford 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly value your friendship then yes, leave him alone. There are too many guys out there to lose a good friend over. True friends are harder to find then men.
2006-12-31 03:47:48 · answer #6 · answered by armageddonbutterfly82 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i can think of a few things that could happen
chance 1
you tell him you like him and he likes you.
your friend gets mad and it ruins a friendship.
chance 2
you tell him you like him and he likes you.
your friend backs off and is happy for you.
chance 3
you tell him you like him and he doesn't like you and thinks now you a freak. your friend gets mad and doesn't speak to you. you lose your friendship the chance of gaining one
chance 4 (this is the 1 i'd take)
back off. there penty of fish in the sea. you tell her that you happy for her but ask that she doesn't flant him around you cause you kinda have feelings for him. you keep your friendship and maybe can get over him become friends with him too BONUS!!!!
cause no guy is worth the losing a friendship for ask me!!!!
2006-12-31 03:58:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He Does like her? Well OK then, yes, back off fast and pretend you never liked him, but if they break up, dont go out with him.
2006-12-31 03:54:44 · answer #8 · answered by Kaleb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you two are really good friends then dont even think twice about it..you should back off since you already know he likes her.
2006-12-31 03:52:45 · answer #9 · answered by Amusing but confusing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i gueaa thats the best thing for u to do. coz if both of them like each other dont go in between them. atleast if he idnt like her it wud be diff. but since they like each other, i feel u shud back out. maybe hes not ur guy, ull get ur guy soon, someone whom u will like n wholl like u as well.n ill pray that happ. soon.
2006-12-31 03:47:29 · answer #10 · answered by cacorreia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋