Ok, so I am interested in anal sex. I've done it before, I like it. But my man isn't into it, I feel badly about that being the only thing I fantasize about. He knows how I feel and, like I would do anything for him, he'd also do anything for me. But I couldn't ever do it with him because I know he's not interested, not his thing. I know he would if I asked him, he's told me, but I feel bad about it now because of how he's not into it. I want it, but I just can't ask him, I don't have the balls. Would you do anything for someone you loved? Even this?
2006-12-31 03:24:29 · 5 answers · asked by _Lara_Bell_ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If I could I would Do anything in my power for the one I loved. Even if it woulf kill me but in this case you might want to ask him be for you do something like that and if he really loves you he will do it, but if you fell really bad about doing it then I wouldn't.
2006-12-31 04:28:42 · answer #1 · answered by Panic! lover 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No...everyone has their lines of delineation and mine would be doing a Nicole Ritchie on my one-way highway and you boyfriend may likely to feel the same. By asking him to violate a code within what it sounds like is his morale ethics, it would be the same as if he asked you to like, let him take a crap on you. If getting anal is your idea of nirvana, then you may need to keep looking for the the right partner that has the same desires as you have.
I has an ex boyfriend that was into the wrong way on a one-way street in my action and I broke up with him because of it.
2006-12-31 03:45:55 · answer #2 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think most people would do danything for those whom they are intimate. This question is something that is asked among Christians also. From what confrences I've attended, anal sex is wrong. So, you may want to ask your spouse of their concerns as to "wrong" or "right" in their eyes. Sometimes we dont think of asking this question, when we are thinking of our own pleasures.
Maybe starting with flirting in that area, would help.....on both partners!
2006-12-31 03:44:37 · answer #3 · answered by C H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tough question. I had similar problem with husb something he didn't want or like to do.....after I offered a few times and he said not now...I stopped asking and just realized it was not his want or need to do so gave up on it. We all have our fantasies but its more to a relationship though than that one thing you need to base your marriage on. Cheating on your husband or leaving him ( to have this type sex) just because of his not liking this shows more problems in your marriage........Good luck
btw...know you didn't mention cheating or leaving but could tell its bothering you or you wouldn't have asked
2006-12-31 03:49:27 · answer #4 · answered by Gypsygrl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THATS NOT TOO MUCH TOO ASK. ITS NOT SUPER OUTRAGOUS.
2006-12-31 04:00:26 · answer #5 · answered by petasucks101 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋