I posted on here about the other day. I was confused as to whether my friend was 'after me' because she kept pretending she was my girlfriend and looking into my eyes and stuff like that.
We went out last night and got drunk and she kissed me while we were out. She said it was to warn off this guy who was interested in me. Then I stayed the night at her house and we cuddled in bed and she was saying I had the sexiest eyes ever and she let me stroke her tummy. We stared into each others eyes for minutes and there is a connection of some kind there.
I do really like her but she's giving off mixed signals. She's also got a boyfriend but they've hit a rocky patch. Infact, she seems unsure about having me and her man in the same company, which upsets me. I don't want to ask her out right how she feels in case I ruin our friendship, which is far more important to me.
I am bisexual but she doesn't know this.
Should I just wait and see what develops naturally
2006-12-31 03:19:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
If she's your friend then tell her of the mixed signals she is giving you. You can't lose her by telling her you are bi because she is giving the same signals. And if you do lose her, she has the problem. She's losing a very good friend.
2006-12-31 04:10:28 · answer #1 · answered by cripesokay2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt if you will do this, but you need to run away. I'm sorry but you have to really sit down and read what you wrote and ask yourself a couple of questions. Where are you in your life? Are you just looking for something sexual or do you want more? Your friend right now is going through a lot of feelings herself that's why are signals are mixed. Hopefully you will make the stand and learn to keep this at a friendship. Let her decide wether or not she wants to be in a relationship with her CURRENT boyfriend or not. Right now it seems like she is using you as an escape. If you guys are both cool with that, then you will do what you do. Just be mindful of your situation and hers. I think it's best to pursue someone that you don't have to do all the guest work with. I hope this helps.
2006-12-31 07:42:18 · answer #2 · answered by sexxy_fem1000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were in your situation, I'd make a move and get her to get rid of the guy, but that's just me. It's up to you to determine if the reward is worth the risk. Some people can't stand to ever risk anything and get nothing out of life, while some take chances and live very happy, fulfilled lives.
2007-01-01 13:13:01 · answer #3 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever heard the saying: Curiosity killed the cat. You just sound curious that's all.
2016-05-22 23:38:41 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her that you are a bi, it will smooth things out a bit more between you both. If you are attracted to the girl then you should just go with what you want and go with what she want's as well. GO GIRL!!!
2006-12-31 05:22:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give it a few weeks. If nothing happens in those few weeks then talk to her.
2007-01-01 18:47:52 · answer #6 · answered by Dreamer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup wait nature takes its course.
2006-12-31 05:14:36 · answer #7 · answered by lifereject 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see what happens naturally
2006-12-31 11:05:18 · answer #8 · answered by goldenbrowngod 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GO TO BED WITH HER AND HER BOYFRIEND! GOD! THAT GUY IS A LUCKY FELLOW!
2006-12-31 07:21:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋