my situation...
(I'm 8 months pregnant and my over analyzing husband and i recently seperated (his choice, he moved out) i want to work things out it but he's not sure what he wants.)
so...after trying very hard to get along with my husband I have decided that i just need to seperate from him, for me and the babys sake.
my question is does absence make the heart grow fonder? Do men think about relationships the way woman do, ex: do they ponder what could have gone differently or ways to fix things?
2006-12-31 03:17:04 · 12 answers · asked by I♥Karma 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
if u love him set him free if he comes back he is urs forever if he doesnt he was never urs from the start. dont make hasty decisions give him 'some' time to analyze and realize. dontworry i think he will beback.ur baby will strengthen ur bonds
2006-12-31 03:33:15 · answer #1 · answered by natasha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hI First to you CONGRATS......on ur baby soon here , wow I had 4 and never thought in my life I would go past 2 and no not with the brady bunch or a happily ever after white picket fence but much education, love and happiness still oh yeah pride and strength too.
Ok we both know the book i could put down re: this question and well yep theres some good books to read just where to begin...lol.
MEN ARE FROM MARS WOMEN ARE FROM VENUS FORGOT THE AUTHOR SORRY AND
ANOTHER IS HES JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU .......HEARD IS GOOD TOO these two re: men and behaviors/emotions,
but online christian carters www.catchhimandkeephim.com on relationship and dating advice....great awesome site read up today for prob all ur answers and the right answers on these questions I feel.
My quest why already do u feel this is best for baby to go already?
alot men seem to move or leave a preagnant women but how long the marriage?
Hes scared I bet......and well pregnancy is emotional for many involved but in the end worth it
good luck to you enjoy the baby minute the baby is born wow the power of life all i can say nobody can give the joy that child will enjoy every moment for it goes fast
blessings to ya congrats again
2006-12-31 03:30:32 · answer #2 · answered by NatureOrNurture 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sadly, no, men are quicker to catch somebody (something) on the rebound quickly as they do not want to deal with feelings and emotions.
It is a real tough situation because in your condition, hormones are raging and with the nesting instinct kicking in, you are likely to want to make sacrifices to be a "whole family" if you could get him to consent than you otherwise would. Yet, surprisingly, you show strength that what you need and for the baby's sake, it to separate from him.
One way your possbily soon to be ex will have a reason to ponder is if and when you hire an attorney to represent you in Court and ask for maintenance (if you are not working or make less than he does) and then child support for when the baby is born. Once a man has been hit in the wallet, it certain does make him ponder about the rest of his life...I know, a wife and child should be the motivators, but sadly, the wallet is the strongest of all if a man's world revolves around himself.
2006-12-31 03:28:47 · answer #3 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absence can make the heart grow fonder but don't forget "Out of sight, out of mind".
Men do think about relationships but not the way women do. If he feels bad and changes his mind he'll ponder what went wrong and how to fix it but if he's not interested in getting back he's probably already moved on. It's up to you to choose what is going to make you and your baby peaceful and happy. I wish you the best because you will need it.
2006-12-31 03:26:06 · answer #4 · answered by katydid 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone as important as a baby or a wife will definitely bug a man. Maybe all you need is some time apart. If things do not improve, make an effort to find a marriage counselor. Do it for yourself or your baby's sake. A complete family is very important for growth.
2006-12-31 03:21:48 · answer #5 · answered by HopeGrace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I believe abscence does make the heart grow fonder.
Im sure everyone thinks about what they could have done differently to make things work. I know I do.
2006-12-31 03:20:22 · answer #6 · answered by o0p2k0o 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For me it does. It happens every day when I'm at work, and when I get home and my wife is at work, I miss her terribly when we are apart. Plus I know she misses me when we are not together.
2006-12-31 03:51:22 · answer #7 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No move on and let him feel the pain
2006-12-31 03:24:30 · answer #8 · answered by vernrebecca 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maturing does, and I agree that if they are not involved with another.
2006-12-31 04:06:03 · answer #9 · answered by C H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, sometimes but not always.
2006-12-31 04:30:47 · answer #10 · answered by Jackie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋