I recently kissed him and he slapped me in return and called me filthy.
2006-12-31 02:46:05 · 30 answers · asked by Leslie S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Where did he slap you? On the a**?
2006-12-31 02:47:19 · answer #1 · answered by motorcitysmadman2 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I am very, very sorry this happened to you. He should NEVER have slapped you. If he called you filthy, maybe he believes you cheated on him? Regardless, discuss this with him right away to determine what the issue is. Suggest marriage counselling. Also, look into counselling services for yourself in your own city. Try the yellow pages. But do not stick around for the second slap. If he begins to get abusive, run, don't walk. Take care of yourself.
2006-12-31 03:01:54 · answer #2 · answered by tami1215 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people don't like to be kissed, but getting slapped for was not called for at all and that was not right.
2006-12-31 02:51:04 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Boy, sounds like there are serious problems in your relationship! Slapping is never appropriate and neither is calling you filthy for something that is a normal, everyday occurrance in a committed male/femal relationship. Why do you tolerate this abuse?
2006-12-31 02:50:13 · answer #4 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He slapped you for KISSING him !!!!!!!!!!!! Oh my word, how incredibly awful! Okay, lady this should be a red flag that there are serious problems in your marriage. There's no kind of counseling available that can fixed something like that.
Yes, he is one of those abusive types, so when you get ready to leave/ divorce him .... don't let him know it. If you have family around, quietly sneak your belongings out of the house and have the divorce papers delivered to him by mail.
If I were you, I would got out of that marriage before things get worse ............
2006-12-31 02:58:10 · answer #5 · answered by rosie768 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you by chance married to an asian man? One of my best friends is cambodian and she told me that traditionally the only time they kiss is the marriage ceremony. No french kissing. It's not appropriate to them. That just completely shocked me. But if you are or were unaware...now you know. But I'm with everyone else here, you should do some serious reconsidering as to whom you're married to or figure why things happened that way. Don't be afraid, and if you are too afraid to ask him questions, that should be your clue to not even bother trying to make it work.
2006-12-31 03:05:28 · answer #6 · answered by armageddonbutterfly82 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He knows you've been blwoing the nieghbor dude. You r filthy to kiss him with breath like that
2006-12-31 13:42:58 · answer #7 · answered by todd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a jerk! This isn't right and you need to get to the bottom of it. before he really hurts you for something else he considers you filthy of!
2006-12-31 02:49:12 · answer #8 · answered by ~just_jd~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he doesen't like toung any more or its did slaped you in the face the man has another woman ask and see if you get another slap then kick him hard and drop him like the kick you just gave him he should not be slapping you over a kiss its more to it
2006-12-31 03:07:47 · answer #9 · answered by d1goodman4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow I have never heard of this before! And your still there? He is physical abusive to you and has mental problems to boot. Call the police and have them stay there while you get your things and get out fast . this guy is a nut case and if you stay you are just as nutty. RUN
2006-12-31 02:52:36 · answer #10 · answered by *queenfairy1*Antioch California 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he has mental problems!! Why doesnt he like to kiss? Does he have stinky breath? Do you have stinky breath? Maybe he was taught kissing was naughty or bad. Sit down with him and have a talk with him. Find out why he doesn't like to kiss.
2006-12-31 02:48:35 · answer #11 · answered by supersweetfungal 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋