Last night I went to the mall with my mom 2 sisters and it was full of young teens walking around doing nothing and trying to start stuff looking all in your face making fun and some young teens in there last night pissed me off which I'm a teen myself What can I do to calm my nerves and get last night off my mind?Please help me
2006-12-31 02:32:01 · 12 answers · asked by Ecrush 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Oh, if I was you, I whouldn't take them seriously! I'll just walk with my nose up, without paying attention to such rubbish!
But I see that you're a very sensibile person, so all I can suggest you is to make yourself a hot cup of green tea, stay and rest a bit, watch TV, your favorite TV show, play funny games on the PC, see a comedy and smile! It's the New Year eve! Be happy!
2006-12-31 02:37:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry you had to see this "bad behavior" in people your own age, but you know it's common because of their immaturity. Your outrage won't change a thing. If you reacted to them, you were doing exactly what they wanted. So here is my suggestion to you; consider the source. Immature, hormone laden "babies" in need of attention are not attractive to anyone. You're worrying about this only hurts yourself...they don't care if you're upset!!! They don't even know you're upset!! So, make a plan for the next time this happens, and it will. Make sure you plan to ignore them so they don't get the best of you. Write all of your "bad" feelings down then go outside and have a great little ceremony with candles as your burn your feelings and pray for these idiots. All they will achieve is negative feelings. Feel sorry for them and concentrate on healing yourself! THEN...do something nice for yourself and celebrate the New Year with a clear and restful spirit. Thanks for asking such a thoughtful question! And..Godloveya, honey.
2006-12-31 10:44:50 · answer #2 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They don't live with you, you aren't sleeping ,married or friends with them- so you have to let it go. I think like myself at that age and my son, it bothers you because you were trained right and you know its rude or wrong and a liitle piece of you thinks (feels) like why can't I be "bad" they are and are getting away with it- but you- will walk taller and cleaner and be better in the long run with use of morals, education,and courtesy. Can you imagine what they will be doing and earning in a couple years- not worth it. You are what I hope my son( Im assuming you are female) finds someday- hes at college and working but hes looking for you! And others are too Im sure!
2006-12-31 10:37:48 · answer #3 · answered by ARTmom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
KEEP IN MIND---- You are better then them. Alot of kids do that kind of stuff, to be cool, they think their tuff, just keep in mind you are better then them.!! If it bothers you that much, that means you are a much better person.. If anything, feel sorry for kids like that, because they either are depressed and want attention or aren't happy with themselves. When I was younger, I use to try to ignore them, but there were times I would be nice to them. lol I would kill them with kindness. It worked most of the time, and sometimes I did get pushed around.. JUST RELAX AND KNOW THE MOST IMPORTANT THING IS, YOU KNOW YOU ARE BETTER THEN THAT! GOOD LUCK!
2006-12-31 10:50:37 · answer #4 · answered by kathy p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to let things go because you obviously know that they were purposely trying to cause issues- so don't let it work on you. Let ti slide what they said, maybe talk to a close friend of parent and discuss how it made you feel, what you can do or say next time, and how to avoid people that are harmful like that. Good luck, and bullies aren't fun.
2006-12-31 10:36:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget them. it aint worth stressin over some dumb@$$ teens whose mama aint got no money to take them to the mall or whose mama at least hangs with them. Ignore them hattas and be happy dat you got a mama who at least wants to spend time wit chaâ¥
2006-12-31 11:17:47 · answer #6 · answered by ♥la chica♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is New Years eve, just take a deep breath, relax, and think about what is ahead for the new year.
2006-12-31 10:34:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch a funny movie with your mom!
2006-12-31 10:34:54 · answer #8 · answered by smeezleme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to your happy place,Relax, Happy New Year!
2006-12-31 10:36:21 · answer #9 · answered by Skeeter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about them. Worry about you and what you are doing to be a self respecting person.
2006-12-31 10:36:38 · answer #10 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋