So i can do things like talk in front of 100 people without getting nervous and talk to girls and not make a fool out of myself.
2006-12-31 02:22:31 · 7 answers · asked by unitedbythemoment 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
hi there... well the first thing is u have to believe in yourself .. tell yourself that u can do it .. tell yourself everyday that you will be confidebt.. and keep assuring yourself that you have confidence..
I have loved teh stage for years... a have been on it and confronted thousands.. teh true secret of talkin and getting on the stage is telling yourself that you can do it ...
Dunt think how r ulookin and wat u r saying wen u r on teh stage... and know taht u can do it... urbelief in yourself is the most important thing ..
well I wish all the best in the forthcomingyears..
May God bless u .. wityh Confidence, courage, and happiness... amen
2006-12-31 02:55:41 · answer #1 · answered by dying2die 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not important that you feel nervous. What's important is that you can step back from it, and do what you wish to do anyway!
I don't think anyone can honestly say that they haven't felt as you do at some point. The only difference is that by acting in spite of being afraid, something amazing will happen. And then you'll do it again, and again, and you'll begin to wonder why you were afraid of your imagination in the first place. Because that's what's happening - you're letting your imagination tell you that it's not going to be a good idea. Well I've got news for you - YOUR IMAGINATION DOESN'T KNOW!!!
If you go up there with sincerity, whether it be a public address or just to say 'Hi' to a girl in a bar, you WON'T make a fool of yourself. Trust your sincerity. The instant you say your first word, all the fear will melt as though it never was, because you've overcome it.
Hope this helps and Good Luck
2006-12-31 02:51:07 · answer #2 · answered by prusec_int 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Practise talking to groups of people even if it means starting off with a smaller group than a hundred people, as you start to get use to talking to people you will be able to talk in front of more people. Also believe in yourself, think that the people that you are talking to are interested in everything that you are saying and that you have more power over them, it makes you feel better to know that you are in control more.
As for talking to girls, don't panic, listen to what they are saying and let the conversation flow. Do not go over the top to impress them and do not plan what you are going to say to them before speaking to them as this will put you off when you do talk to them.
Good luck
2006-12-31 02:30:15 · answer #3 · answered by Honey!! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to love a woman for her content and character as much as her looks. If she's shallow and unwilling to understand you as a person either use her or dump her. Speaking to one hundred people is not difficult if you picture empty space in front of you that needs to be filled with your voice. Also, pretend the people are all little babies.
2006-12-31 02:51:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enzyte.
2006-12-31 02:34:53 · answer #5 · answered by torchkit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you look cool, you will probably feel cool. Also become good at something that impresses people.
2006-12-31 02:30:45 · answer #6 · answered by D@nny boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shave all of the hair off of your entire body
2006-12-31 02:25:35 · answer #7 · answered by Weave 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋