Is it wrong getting back with ur ex 4 the sake of a child u had together?

Answer 1

Nooooooooooooo,never.The child will be happier if you and your ex just get on as friends.....rather than 2 parents fighting...believe me I know.Happy New Year.x

Answer 2

If you mean getting back together with your ex for the sake of the child than I would say: It is not wrong; but long term it is not going to work. If your only "connection" with your ex is the fact that you have had children together, then what will happen when the children grow up and move on? You'll be stuck in the same nasty relationship you had before.

Be careful.

Answer 3

It is definetly wrong!! People should not stay together, or get back together "for the sake of the child(ren)" The emotional or mental damage that you could be doing to that child is far, far worse than them being apart from that parent, or merely having visitation. Most relationships end because of turmoil. You don't need to raise your child in that situation. If for some reason you ended the relationship because you "grew apart", then to force something that isn't meant to be, will definetly end up kicking you in the butt in the end anyway--there will be fights, resentment, and ultimately your child will be subjected to that--and that isn't a good thing!!! Be civil, be friends, get along, and THAT is what is best for your child.

Answer 4

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Answer 5

not at all. The only exception would be if the ex is violent, then you would not want a child round him. But there must of been a valid reason for your break up in the first place. Think about that reason and then think is it possible to put it behind for the child.

Answer 6

If you are not happy together, the child will eventually know it and it will possibly lead to a relationship disfunction in the child. It would be better to find someone you truly love and have a healthy relationship as an example for the child.

Answer 7

If you aren't truly compatible and that is really the biggest reason to get back together, rather than love and lessons learned and mutual willingness to make the effort to make it work out well since the child will be learning how to have a relationship from you, then yes, it's wrong.

Answer 8

if you dont truly love this person it will not work and in the end will just hurt your child more.if you want what is best for your child,be the best parent you can and get your ex to have a part in your child's life to,then you need to get on with your life and make yourself happy whether that is finding another partner or just doing things/hobbies you love.your child will be happiest when the are surrounded by happy confident people who are being great role models not parents who are trying to get on and kidding themselves just for the sake of it.

Answer 9

Well, not necessarily.
It's obviously not the best of basis for a relationship, but it's a start as long as you do respect each other and are genuinely prepared to do your best to make the relationship a success.
If your heart is not in it, then yes, it would be wrong, because it'd mean that it will obviously fail, and that the poor kid is going to go through it (again)!
So, do think hard before taking that path.
Good luck if you do.
It may well work. xxx

Answer 10

well a childs happiness is the most important thing to a parent(or should be). but my wife married me becuase she was pregnant with our oldest daughter. 3 years later we divorsed. over the next 4 years we had an on/off relationship. now we're remarried, but our oldest daughter lives with grandparents because she don't feel secure with us. anytime we get in a small disagreement she thinks we're going to split up again. so ya'll need to take your time make sure you want be together before you take a chance putting a child on that emotional rollercoaster or you'll regret it later. i hope you all the happiness in your decision.

Answer 11

it is only wrong if that is the only reason. if you still love your partner and want to give it ago then good luck and i hope it works out but i speak from experience when i say that if you are going to be unhappy with your partner its a bad idea as im sure your child would rather have two seperated happy parents than live in a home with two unhappy ones.