im 13 i have a boy friend we been goin out 4 a year and we took it past kissin we had sex i skip 3 m. it havent came on yet am i or m i not because im not aloud 2 c this boy cuz he is 18 teen but i think i n love what should i do we had sex 2 time da last time with out a comdom..................................................i m cryin i cant talk 2 my mom cuz she will take it 2 far yea i have a black mom she is craziiiiiii so what should i do
2006-12-31 01:22:52 · 18 answers · asked by shaymeera 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
i got my cycle when i when i was ten
2006-12-31 02:02:06 · update #1
Not all women get positive tests when they are in fact pregnant. At your age it's not uncommon to have irregular cycles. Even stress can make you skip periods. If you really think you are pregnant then you need to see a doctor. Talk to you mother or maybe find a pregnancy resource center, like planned parenthood or something. Maybe a counselor at your school. Prenatal care is extremely important if you're pregnant.
2006-12-31 01:27:05 · answer #1 · answered by Mrs_M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First: Yes you may be pregnant, you may not be pregnant. You need to go see a doctor, and you REALLY need to tell you mom. She won't take it too far, there is no "too far" in this case.
Second: You are in love with a pedophile. It isn't uncommon at all, the reason he was successful is that he is good at making you fall in love with him. If he couldn't get you in bed, then he wouldn't be good at what he does.
Third: There is something called, "age of consent", this is the age when the law says that most children are able to make good judgment about whether they should have sex or not. At one time it applied mostly to getting married, so it was relatively young if you had "parental consent" as in your parents thought the guy was OK, so you could get married young and have sex. Now days, the whole marriage thing is out the window and therefore the age of consent is going up. There is no place in the entire world, where a 13 yr old girl has the legal right to have sex. This means that the entire world is either out to get 13 yr olds, or that they all have decided that you just aren't old enough to realize the problems associated with sex.
Unfortunately, even laws don't help some people, and you are the victim here. You need to seek the help and advice of your Mother, minister, or school counselor. You can not help the situation you are in, alone, afraid, and confused; unless you get some help. Choose help wisely.
If you still seek "anonymous" help.... call this number:
1.800.656.HOPE
People who care will talk to you and help you through these problems. (and they won't be judging YOU or pointing fingers at you)
2006-12-31 10:28:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
oh my god, no wonder all of these people are saying that they think that 13 is too young to date. The reason...you! Okay, you are seriously giving teenagers a bad name here! First off, you should not be posting this sh!t on the web, because your "boyfriend" could go to jail for statutory rape. Second, you are most likely not in love with him, and just need to realize that. Third, 13 is WAY too young to have sex, get a therapist! And fourth, if you are going to be retarded and have sex this young at least use birth control! Also, you should make sure that you get your boyfriend and yourself tested for stds. And you should definitely talk to your mom about this! If you are sneaking behind her back and having sex with 18 year olds, you need to talk to her! And she should set you up with a therapist...I am not even kidding!
2006-12-31 17:41:19 · answer #3 · answered by girl put ur records on 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you need to find out first is if you are pregnant. Look in the phone book for a Teen Health Center, or call social service and find out where there is free testing for pregnancy or get a home test. Once you find out then you will know that there are decisions to make and why spend the time worrying about something that may not even be true. Please do call a health center because if you are sexually active you need to be on birth control. 13 is too young to be pregnant and having children.
2006-12-31 18:36:18 · answer #4 · answered by Deirdre O 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pregnancy test kits can go wrong and stress/depression can also effect your cycle. Calm down and see a doctor, you may or maynot be pregnant. And if you do, please do not kill the baby thru abortion, I know its easier said than done by try talk to your school student counsellor and asked them to talk to your parents. It will help ease the tension. You will develop love for the child (if you'r pregnant) and it will be the best thing ever happen to you, maybe you wont agree at the moment, but in the future you'll be glad you keep the baby. Life has always ups and downs and there it is okay to make mistakes, but learn from it. Make sure your bf also share the responsibility. Don't swallow all your agonies alone, he has a big part in it. Let your counsellor know.
2006-12-31 11:33:11 · answer #5 · answered by Hoshin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 13 - I didnt get my first period until I was 13. Your cycles arent normal yet. Stop messing around at 13 years old especially with an 18 year old. Think about the consequences like what your worried about right now. Stay young as long as possible it goes by so fast.
2006-12-31 09:59:40 · answer #6 · answered by Tina C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Speak to a trusted adult. Perhaps contact Planned Parenthood. You need to check out all your options while they are still available to you. Your mom also needs to know. Better to know now than when you are in the middle of labor and that is when you try to face reality. This will not only disrupt and effect your life, but everyone elses that is close to you. The truth will come out eventually, do it now while you have choices.
2006-12-31 15:24:29 · answer #7 · answered by w2kaad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WoW.......wut are you doing haveing sex at your age and esspecially with a 18teen year old. Take the test again, maybe wait a little while. If you indead are pregnant you have to go to your mom no matter how crazy she may be. i no that will be hard but you still have no choice in the matter. I wish you only but the best. Good Luck!!!!
2006-12-31 09:31:35 · answer #8 · answered by peace love & lipgloss 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you've been having periods since you were 10 and have now missed 3 of them after having unprotected sex, it sounds as if you're most definitely pregnant.
You need to tell your mother immediately, get yourself to a doctor, and say goodbye to your "boyfriend" who will likely be off to jail for statutory rape.
Your mother can't possibly take things any farther than you've already taken them yourself. Now it's time to face reality.
2006-12-31 16:33:12 · answer #9 · answered by moonshadow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he should be put in jail what sicko bangs a 13 year old??? You need to tell your mom. That is why you do not have sex till you are much more mature at the least!! Your mom is not crazy...how would you feel if your child did this???
2006-12-31 12:53:12 · answer #10 · answered by mommy of 2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋