He used to be a friend of my girlfriend but he did something horrific to her, she can't stand him and I don't care for him at all. When I invited my friend she told me she already knew and she wasn't going to bring him. Am I wrong?
Here's what he did: My girlfriend is a dominant lesbian, I can't have children so we decided to go through artificial insemination, she didn't want to take a chance at losing the 3000 dollars we spent so she told me she would carry for me, kind of like a segregate. We weren't going to tell people until she was comfortable enough with her new body and the state she is in. She told him because she thought he was her good friend and told him not to tell anyone, he decided to tell everyone he knew and what he told was a lie. He told people she had sex with some guys and now she's pregnant and doesn't know which one is the father. Of course it got back to her and I believe she was more hurt than anything. But that’s why he not invited.
2006-12-31 01:16:07 · 13 answers · asked by Treat429 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
No there not still friends and there are lots of guys coming to the shower, we wanna make it fun so it's more like a baby shower/party.
2006-12-31 02:45:53 · update #1
He did it, he admited to it when i confronted him about it.
2006-12-31 02:47:38 · update #2
For ARM: she and I are together hun, we're in a relationship.
2006-12-31 02:50:32 · update #3
I don't blame you for not inviting him, he doesn't sound like a nice person to have around, you did the right thing... good luck with the baby.
2006-12-31 01:20:30 · answer #1 · answered by melark 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't be hurt if someone didn't invite me to a baby shower. What do you expect a guy to do at a baby shower anyway. You did the bloke a favor. Now he can go shoot pool or hang out with his friends while she does the baby shower stuff.
You also speak/write as if they are still friends. So apparently, what you say he did wasn't that bad or didn't affect her the same way it did for you. Is there something you're not telling us here? If so, you're the one who's wrong!!!!
2006-12-31 01:18:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your girlfriend is a lesbian? Were you a lesbian too? How does she loose $3,000 If it is your money? I didn't know lesbians could have boyfriends? You shouldn't have let a friend become an intimate family member. I think you are going to have a lot of trouble or you may have two new members in your family or one to many depends on how you look at it. It is to late for advice.
2006-12-31 01:30:25 · answer #3 · answered by ARM 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not wrong but choose your battles carefully ,,some battles that belong to others should be left for them to fight unless they let you know you can be like this. i cant honestly say im surprised by what he did though,,some men dont fully understand what happens when one woman can carry anothers womans baby,so to speak, it may reflect on their own masculinity,implying she had 'turkey basted' isnt something many men are comfortable with,saying she didnt know who the father was admonishes him of any guilt or embarrassment that may have come from others finding out and thinking the baby was his when after,,there would be no baby. stupid and thoughtless but understandable.
2006-12-31 01:25:02 · answer #4 · answered by lex 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, he's not such of a friend if he did that! Although, you might want to make sure that he was the one that spread the news. If it wasn't, you would be hurting an innocent person.
2006-12-31 01:20:16 · answer #5 · answered by Erin B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
guys don't normally go to baby showers tell him that guys aren't aloud at baby showers. if they are aloud well lie to him why not he lied to a lot more people and hurting a woman sure does pay...
2006-12-31 01:19:46 · answer #6 · answered by sheltiesrus3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's wrong with you who said anything about having sex.
You were right, enjoy your shower/party.
2006-12-31 06:41:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you are right to NOT to invite him!! what a nasty person.
But .. every Baby Shower I have been to is all girls .. no boys ... so enjoy the baby shower without the men present.
Goodluck & congrats =)
2006-12-31 01:18:59 · answer #8 · answered by DeeDee 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all wat's a baby shower and go have sex with this girl if you like her! u shud folloew your heart
2006-12-31 06:00:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, you didn't do anything wrong. You were right to not invite him.
2006-12-31 01:21:25 · answer #10 · answered by ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋