2006-12-31 01:07:16 · 7 answers · asked by le_snowangel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
if u know the truth about your husband, and he isn't willing to admit or be accountable for cheating, than he doesn't really want your forgiveness, and there can be no healing from this. if his wants come first before yours or the kid's, than he is selfish and it's creating a bad environment for u and the kids. he will continue to pull u down . we need the right environment to secede in life and be happy. it's your responsibility to make the changes in your life and break away from bad things that hurt u.
2006-12-31 01:50:43 · answer #1 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a very selfish man. You better be careful with him. Demand he be tested for desease after being with other women. He did not make a mistake He made a conscious choice to committ adultary, now he must suffer the consequences. Do not call him your Hubby, that is an endearment. He is an *** Hole. You need to tell him to leave the house, he is a bad influence on the children and no use to you. You have to take care of yourself and the kids first. He needs to go.
2006-12-31 19:46:04 · answer #2 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he is selfish and rotten. He is only satisfying his own guilty pleasure. It is sick and disrespecting. Get a lawyer and divorce him. I can see maybe working through a one time affair, but two? No way! And he is not even thinking about the kids? What if he gets the other women pregnant? What will happen then? Kick him to the curb! You are much better off without him. Good luck.
2006-12-31 09:12:15 · answer #3 · answered by looloo1122 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh honey firstly i feel for you and your kids no one but no one is meant to be treated that way now here my opioion, end it now end it he is a idiot firstly cause he has commited adultary and he is a ******* asshole for not caring about the kids leave him now and find someone who will treat you and your kids the way it is meant to be
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2006-12-31 09:10:23 · answer #4 · answered by brian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you didn't mention if you had tried counselling with him.
it's always helpful to have an objective 3rd party work out the issues between you.
but if that doesn't change his attitude towards you and the kids, or if he doesn't want to attend. i would take concrete steps to end the relationship.
you may need to make preparations for alternative accomodation, childcare and perhaps look for a job. also please make sure that you have someone who would be willing to emotionally support you, perhaps your family or a close friend.
2006-12-31 09:15:41 · answer #5 · answered by owara l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't even waste time trying to answer that. Find a solution on getting out of that relationship.
2006-12-31 09:10:56 · answer #6 · answered by just me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is selfish, so why are you still there??????????????
2006-12-31 09:58:41 · answer #7 · answered by Right Wing Extremist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋