heres its the thing i love everything to be clean but with a 2 year old for that to happen is me cleaning every day but dont you get mad when your husband come and dosent make the effort to maintain everything clean i mean not all are that way but some are i just thing maybe i little more help
2006-12-31 00:57:20 · 8 answers · asked by user 3 in Home & Garden ➔ Cleaning & Laundry
Yes I agree, especially you just got done cleaning and everyone gets home and it looks worse then when you first started. And nobody can see why you are upset.
2006-12-31 02:38:11 · answer #1 · answered by Right Wing Extremist 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I used to be a clean freak. I realized there are much more things in life than cleaning. Don't worry about a "home" that's lived in, that's what makes it a home. I know husbands can sometimes be a pain, but is it really worth it to be upset over? Start teaching the little ones to pick up their toys. Most of all take time for yourself and your husband. Take a day out of the week and ask your husband to help you with some of that heavy duty cleaning.
2006-12-31 01:40:53 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a husband,
I love a clean house. my wife cleans while I'm at work, I never have time to dirty up let alone place things on the floor or dirty up dishes. my six year old helps her aswell but when ever my wife need help, I am always willing. your husband feels that since he is a man, that is not his duty. well times have changed and a man is still a man even if he helps around the house and not just taking out trash. he'll figure it out one day but maybe not tomorrow.
2006-12-31 01:09:51 · answer #3 · answered by DJenks64 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Thanks for reminding me that I REALLY should tidy up &clean my flat! I should begin 2007 with a neat interior...
& for your problem: give your man a ultimatum. Threaten to take away from him something he really likes if he doesn't make an effort (or pays for a cleaning lady, if you can afford it). Might not work, but at least he would know how you feel...
2006-12-31 01:10:49 · answer #4 · answered by â?ª The RedHead â?« (Dead & Gone) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it drives me wild but the best thing to do is a little everyday then try and get out of the house more i was constantly cleaning but since Ive been doing a little everyday I'm much happier and my husband has started helping more,without me having to get on his case.remember its not the be all and end all of your life.or you could just kick your fellers bum to get him to help this works also lol
2006-12-31 01:05:20 · answer #5 · answered by upyafartpipe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
*ugh* I hate cleaning!! My biggest pet peeve is my husband walking into the house with his shoes on right after I have washed the floor! aaarrrggghhhh!!
2006-12-31 01:07:50 · answer #6 · answered by auntcookie84 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you get ur old man to help clean up after himself let me know how you did it
2006-12-31 02:00:43 · answer #7 · answered by mountainchowpurple 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, because I never clean :)
2006-12-31 01:05:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋