...girlfriend has told him that it bothers her that he&his female coworker are so close...but the guy refuses to end his friendship with his coworker...the girlfriend is really in love with him&doesnt want to lose him...what should the girlfriend do?
2006-12-31 00:32:53 · 20 answers · asked by strongchin1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
HE is NOT going to do anything about it....he loves it.....the best of both worlds. You are the ONLY one that is going to change it. You do THAT by moving on! You deserve better than what he is willing to give you. Don't let him continue to walk on you, and your heart.
2006-12-31 00:37:47 · answer #1 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If the girlfriend is confident in herself and her boyfriend's love his lunch friend should not matter. If the girlfriend has never met the lunch friend, she should express the desire to join them for lunch one day so she can meet the co-worker. The girlfriend should not continue to pressure her boyfriend to end the friendship because it makes her look insecure and that can be a turn-off to men.
2006-12-31 00:43:50 · answer #2 · answered by philly_q_t_2004 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sorry honey but the girlfriend should dump him and move on. It will be better for her in the long run because somehthing is going on with that co worker if he picke the coworker over the girfriend.
2006-12-31 00:34:49 · answer #3 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
A lunch date with a coworker doesn't mean he isn't in love with you. But your jealousy is going to push him away and your going to find out that he isn't in love with you anymore.
Being jealous is just stupid!
2006-12-31 00:34:52 · answer #4 · answered by Tapestry6 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I take it you 2 carpool or some thing like that. i do no longer think of something is erroneous, my husband is going to lunch with unmarried co-workers generally. does not difficulty me. Lunch does not equivalent intercourse. women and adult adult males human beings could be acquaintances. i bypass to the gymnasium and then lunch with a unmarried male pal on M W F. Am I having intercourse with him? good Lord NO! (My ideas merely rebelled on the concept-approximately it) i think of her boyfriend is merely insecure.
2016-11-25 02:39:11 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to explore the reasons they go to lunch every day...
* no other friends at the office.
* mutual hatred of a common boss.
* need to discuss work-related projects.
* desire to better understand you and how to meet your needs.
* mutual love of Thai food.
There are reasons to spend time with someone which have no sexual connotations. Maybe by understanding them, you can either accept them or provide reasonable solutions to meet those same needs.
Alternatively, you could start doing 'nooners' with him, which should pretty much overcome whatever he was gaining from lunch with his co-worker. :)
2006-12-31 00:41:44 · answer #6 · answered by Ketel One Up 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i know what i would do !and i am sure no one would like it.but you know what?your feelings have'nt been spared.he would have to make the decision to cut the ties and all the baloney with this co-worker.too many affairs come out of this type of relationship.they start talking about personal things that should not be discussed.either he respects your wishes or feelings or it's curb time.as you probably noticed i am mad!been there...done that.he is no longer with me.good luck .you will need it.
2006-12-31 00:45:34 · answer #7 · answered by honeypot0214 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have told him how you feel. And, if he is not taking you into condsideration about this matter ..that is grounds for finding a new boyfriend. He should respect your feelings above his coworkers .....just make sure you are not being possessive about him.
2006-12-31 00:37:49 · answer #8 · answered by Hear2Help 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Girlfriend you should check yourself and see what value you amount to. Don't cheapen yourself because someone else put a price tag on you. If you think that you are worth this situation then make sure you get your money's worth. If it does not add up - what you spend and what you get/ are getting - then shop elsewhere. How you value yourself is important because that is the respect you will get in return.
2006-12-31 00:53:02 · answer #9 · answered by Jay 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Is there any tension betweeen the coworker? i eat with my female friends on a day to day basis but i am married. you dont see me ******* them
2006-12-31 00:36:53 · answer #10 · answered by elmucki 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋