There is tis girl i really like in my school. We have been friends for a while and i am thinking of asking her out. She does not know i like her so but i would love to go out. Her friends on the other hand, seem to hate me and seem i think they ruined our close freindship ever since i befreinded one of them. this person might have told lies about me ands my freind dosn't seem as comfterable around me anymore as she use to. Should i tell this person off or what?
2006-12-29 23:56:39 · 7 answers · asked by BKool 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Okay listen closely, because I was in a very similay situation. If you want any chance this is what you need to do: She obviously doesn't like you as much as she used to. Ask her out now and you're done. She'll say, "no", and things will be weird between you forever.
What you need to do is somehow win at least one of her, preferably all or most of, her friends over. Either make up w/ her friend you think "told lies about you". or start being really nice to, and befriend one of her other friends,( maybe even try to date one of them). Find the friend at the bottom of her groups "social food chain". That's the weak link. She'll be happy to get attention and have someone listen to her. If she sees you w/ a friend of hers, and this friend says good things about you it may "give you an in". If her friend will go out w/ you that could get her attention as well. Especially if u just hang w/ her and nothing romantic happens. This would give you a chance to hang out in a group, and because nothing romantic has happened w/ her friend she would be free to date you w/out betraying her friend.
The bottom line is you need to win her friends over or make up w/ the friend you were once close w/. She's never going to start a relationship w/ someone her friends don't like. So to reiterate, try to get closer to one of her friends that's not as popular or as pretty as her, and would b glad to go out/hang w/ you. It may seem kind of sketchy, but trust me it will/has worked. GL
2006-12-30 00:36:56 · answer #1 · answered by GreyGHost29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, just be as polite as royalty to them and treat your girl like a lady at all times, to show through actions that whatever lies were told about you were lies. She WILL come around. Telling them off will get you nowhere and make you look like either a hothead or a weenie who can't take the heat. I also agree with what-his-name above me in that asking her out directly and showing your feelings in a big nasty way would be a huge mistake. Keep your cards held close. It creates mystique, which no one can resist.
2006-12-30 08:21:12 · answer #2 · answered by OkiefromMuskogee 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah I would first of all its none of their business. If you like this girl go for it. Ask her out and let her know how you feel. Just because her friends don't like you doesn't mean you can't be with her. go for it because someone might beat you to it.
2006-12-30 08:03:02 · answer #3 · answered by RoNy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
DON'T TELL HER HOW YOU FEEL...
SEE MY OTHER ANSWERS ON MY PROFILE ABOUT THESE THINGS...
WHATEVER YOU DO, DON'T ASK HER OUT...
WHEN YOU ARE WITH HER, TEASE HER...
AND WHEN YOU FEEL YOU ARE GETTING THE RIGHT SIGNAL, JUST GO FOR IT WHEN YOU TWO ARE ALONE...
WOMEN ARE EASILY INFLUENCED BY THEIR FRIENDS, SO YOU BETTER MOVE FAST...
ALSO, WOMEN GIVE THE WORST ADVICE...
DON'T LISTEN TO THIS ASK HER OUT B.S, OR TELL HER YOUR FEELINGS...
OR YOU'LL BE FINISHED...
KEEP HER GUESSING...
AND, JUST GO FOR IT...
AS IN SOON...
WHY DO ALL YOU GUYS FEEL YOU HAVE TO TELL A CHICK YOUR FEELINGS...
AND, HAVEN'T YOU NOTICED THAT WHEN YOU DO...
THE CHICKS ALWAYS RUN AWAY???
SO WHY DO YOU GUYS KEEP DOING THIS?????
GET HER ALONE, AND JUST GO FOR IT...
DON'T ASK...
JUST GO FOR IT AT THE RIGHT MOMENT...
Please don't listen to this chick who says tell her your feelings, and ask her out... PLEASE DON'T...
GET HER ALONE AND GO FOR IT...
STOP WEARING YOUR HEARTS ON YOUR SLEEVES GUYS...
WOMEN HATE IT...
BE A CHALLENGE...
SEE MY OTHER POSTS, ANSWERS...
DON'T ASK HER OUT OR TELL HER HOW YOU FEEL, NO NEED OF IT...
AS FAR AS THE FRIENDS GO...
Talk to them all, be friendly with them, even if you think they are saying bad things, etc...
Create competition so all of the chicks like you...
Be friendly with them all...
SO YOU COME IN "UNDER THE RADAR"...
2006-12-30 08:18:12 · answer #4 · answered by Q&A 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just stay at school and forget about girlfriends and really concentrate on your spelling and grammar, it's atrocious!
2006-12-30 07:59:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
no, telling the person off will most likely distance you from the one you like even more.
2006-12-30 08:01:20 · answer #6 · answered by Goddess T 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
u should .. go to the toilet then......sorry i forgot thats bec im drunk and high and numb
2006-12-30 07:58:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋