we can't talk alot with together.he is shy person.
what do i do that we have good relationship?
2006-12-29 23:23:00 · 7 answers · asked by star 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
being in a relationship needs a lot of understanding and sacrifice if you want it to work out. maybe you need to understand your boyfriend more. maybe you need to learn more about who he really is. his shyness may be the cause why you never get to talk a lot together but this does not necessarily mean that he doesn't attend to you. if you love your boyfriend, maybe its time to accept him as he is. if he is not a talker then let him be, maybe he just wants to listen to you so why not do the talking. loving a person does not mean accepting only those traits that conform to our liking. we also have to accept their weaknesses. Allow the person we love to be what he is and not what we want him to be. Get to know him better and you will soon find out that he is quite a person to be loved.
2006-12-29 23:54:10 · answer #1 · answered by j6shawie26 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him what you just told us. That you are frustrated w/ his lack of communication and that you want a deeper relationship. Maybe there is a reason why he's so reserved. He may have been hurt in the past or have some other type of issue, that he might be willing to discuss w/ you if prompted. If you reach out to him at least he will know you care. That alone may be the start of a closer relationship. GL girl.
2006-12-30 07:37:03 · answer #2 · answered by GreyGHost29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should ask him this question. I think he can better answer this than anyone on Y!Answers.. Tell him exactly how you feel. Talk things out, compromise. Remember your feelings have to be mutual in order for this relationship to work. I hope you find your answers. Good luck and best wishes....
2006-12-30 07:29:19 · answer #3 · answered by * TeXaS cHiCk * 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there is no communication, what does this relationship have?
In my opinion, it is time to move on.
2006-12-30 08:14:00 · answer #4 · answered by amazedmaize 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL HIM TO READ A BOOK THAT YOU HAVE READ AND UNDERSTAND A LOT AND THEN ASK HIM QUESTIONS ABOUT IT AND THAT OPENS A CONVERSATIONS......
2006-12-30 07:47:42 · answer #5 · answered by livinhapi 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He might be cheating on you.
2006-12-30 07:25:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
WITHOUT COMMUNICATION YOU DON'T HAVE A RELATIONSHIP. IT WILL ONLY GET WORSE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-30 08:49:47 · answer #7 · answered by MAJOR JIM 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋