Well My Man Past Relaionship Started Out When He Was Very Young...Around 15 I Think. He And His Ex Were Kids. They Had Their Puppy Love Going On. They've Broken up Before And He Meet Other People And Slept With Them. But When He Got Older Around Like 20 Or 21...He Became Committed To Her Cause He Thought He Was Getting Older And He Had Already Explored And Experimented And He Knew What He Wanted. But Then She Didn't Believe It. She Was Hearing Stuff From His Past And Later On She Decided To Get Back At Him By Sleeping With I Think Two People They Knew. The Guys Started Talking About Her. He Felt Like A Fool Because He Was Really Committed to Her Now. He Wanted Their Relationship To Be Serious At That Time She Did That. So He Felt Like A Fool And Cut Her Off For Good. He Even Left the State And That's When He Meet Me. Now He Has In His Mind That Alot Of Females Are So Scandulous Because They Love Attention And Flirting So it's Hard To Trust Us Ladies. I Ain't Nothing Like That Though.
2006-12-29 22:53:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
wait and see
2006-12-29 22:59:49 · answer #1 · answered by anis118030 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa REWIND and take a breath----Too many she's and he's and then a few Me's sprinkled in there to get the whole jest--I think if I were you I would move to a new town and start over --hey maybe Hollywood and make a new day time soap --you have all that is needed--lots of people that want someone else besides who they have--
Good Luck and see you on "When the Sun Sets "
2006-12-29 23:02:12 · answer #2 · answered by skizzle-d-wizzle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Ms, if he willing to judge all women by just one then maybe you should take things very slow. If you 2 are going to have a relationship then you both should start fresh and grow and learn together being open and honest with each other. Other wise it will be 1 sided and someone is going to get hurt.
Good Luck.
2006-12-29 23:00:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I beleive in destiny but I still think you have to fight to save your marriage. Especially if you have children.
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2014-09-27 17:03:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess he just has to get to know you, then go from there and decide if he wants to make a committed relationship to you. Good Luck.
2006-12-29 23:04:08 · answer #5 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever wonder why they call it dating? This is the time to get to know each other with out the pressure of sex. He needs the time to get to know you. And to find out you are not like this so don't rush him
2006-12-29 23:03:24 · answer #6 · answered by Roger W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I make NO appologies for what I am about to write you can accept it or deny it.
Sex before marriage will cause the insecurity that you have mentioned. (What you sow you reap). The reason GOD designed sex to be between 2 people after committment was exactly to avoid the very things that your boyfriend has encountered.
If you think about it carefully if 2 people meet and fall in love and demonstrate self control in regards to SEX before marriage especially if the Lady is a Virgin. Then when the consumate the marriage the man will see the evidence for himself which will cement the relationship with a foundation of trust. Also they will have no previous experience or person to compare with. If you have a relationship with God then He will show you who is best for you. Having a relationship with God demonstrates the reasons and how to be committed. Our time and God's timing in regard to our lives is different. Being prepared for marriage is essential, a relationship with someone should be based on the understanding that marriage is highly probable and if it is not a desire of one or the other then the relationship should not continue. You would not drive a car if you know it is going to breakdown. You don't take an exam without first studying the subject, being prepared for marriage is essential. Who created marriage and why?
I am not saying I am perfect and I fell in the very trap your boyfriend did, I had sex before marriage. It was only when my ex-wife and I were going through a divorce that I asked for Gods help in the situation, as I wanted to remain married to my ex-wife. I called out and asked him to show me if He was real and who He wanted me to be with. I wanted my marriage to work, but had caused far too much pain for my ex-wife to be able to forgive me, even though she has said with her mouth she has forgiven me her actions spoke louder. God knew this and showed me in a dream who I was going to be with. The next day I went into town with my children and met someone who spoke to me about the things of God and encouraged me to go to their next church service. I was self righteous and said I would go to church but not theirs, anyway I went home and sat down and thought about the prayer I had made. I realised God had tried to reveal himself to me. I did'nt hesitate the next day went to church and got saved. Through going to church I have come to face the mistakes I made in my old marriage and understand the issues and situations that arise and also the solutions to the problems. I first got saved in 2000, and I have not yet met anyone new, I do know however that God has someone new and his timing is perfect. (if that is the case for me then that is the case for everyone, if they wish)
Adultery or Fornication is SIN, the same as lying, stealing, disrespecting parents, not loving God and if we were left without God and His son Jesus, then we would be heading for a devils hell. Jesus dying on the cross was the price he paid for the Worlds Sin and if you or anyone REPENTS of their sin and looks for a relationship with GOD then they are saved from an eternal Hell and the SIN they have committed is wiped clean like it never happened.
(Repentance means seeing your sin, and making a declaration to God that you are sorry for it, that you desire not to do it again, then making a decision not to do it again even when tempted to do so. True repentance is turning away from your sin. Only with the help of God through the holy spirit can we truly repent and have the strength to turn from our sin.)
To get saved you simply pray asking God to forgive you of your sin, recognising Jesus died for your sin, that he is alive and ready to return, that you desire a relationship with God and a place in eternity in heaven.
Then seek a relationship with God on a daily basis by praying to Him, reading your bible and looking for a church that preach the Gospel.
2006-12-29 23:56:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you are not like those women he met before, and you PROVE to him that you are not like those women.
2006-12-29 23:17:24 · answer #8 · answered by AF 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
prove it...and just gain his trust and be careful.
you can't blame him...he had a rough time.
just make him enjoy your company.
2006-12-29 23:02:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your question is a bit confusing especially with those he, her , i, them, and so on. i just cant put the details together. please rephrase your question, i will be more than willing to answer. thank u.
2006-12-29 23:03:13 · answer #10 · answered by Ruth M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋