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Please tell me how did you handle this situation, did you get over it or?
One thing for sure is that it hurts like hell because you can't be with that man and you can't do anything about it.
2006-12-29 22:52:31 · 6 answers · asked by Alison F 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Oh hell yes, girlfriend. Something about a married man who's so together, so at ease with himself ..... and yes, it does hurt and I don't bother with them any more - there are too many wrongs about it and nothing right about it. We can't preordain who we're going to be attracted to but you should stop and ask yourself why you've got a crush on him - is it the challenge, the forbidden fruit ... you know where I'm going with this. Then, if you do get him, are the repercussions worth it? I don't know how YOU would handle it but I can see it all in my head and I know I'm going to end up being the stupid one and i could just be a sexual treat and it doesn't go any where .... just secret rendevous, sneaking around ..... in the end, I thought I was better than that. I didn't want to turn my life upside down just to have one little taste, you know what I mean?
2006-12-29 23:02:41 · answer #1 · answered by chynnablue 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I feel ya btdt and know how it hurts BuT what you have to realize is #1 this man IS married and ISN'T about to leave wify poo no matter what he might say #2 it was bound to happen sooner or later they always find out #3 your prob better off w/o him and will eventually find someone better anyway
2006-12-30 07:00:40 · answer #2 · answered by Leveler 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, and the way I dealt with it was to remind myself how hurt his wife must feel being lied to by a man she loves! It worked.
2006-12-30 07:08:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes for for the last 25yrs and i'm still not over it.don't do it it will break your heart the longing the wanting can be unbearable,and you have to wear it because there is not a damm thing you can do about it. just stay away from it please.
2006-12-30 07:04:24 · answer #4 · answered by flossypants 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have....but leave it at that! He is married, and you would want the same if you were married, and another woman had a crush on your husband.
2006-12-30 06:59:18 · answer #5 · answered by veronica c 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes it was fun at the time - but when his wife found out it wasnt so much fun!!!! hundreds of phonecalls!!! i had to change my phone number in the end!!
I think they're still together!!
2006-12-30 06:55:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋