I sometimes wonder if a lot of Asian women here in the States consciously don't date Asian men. I know that not all Asian girls who date Caucasian men are this way (some just fell in love with a guy who was White), but I also see a lot of Asian girls who seem to actively hate Asian guys and do their best to stay away from them and never bother to give them a chance. Is my perception of the situation wrong? Sometimes I really wonder...I've heard a few of my Asian female friends say they're not into Asian guys...and then they settled for the nerdiest, boring White guy just because he was White. On the other hand, I know Asian girls who have dated all sorts of guys. Still, I sometimes wonder when I see an Asian girl with a White guy if she's only dating him bc she hates Asian men.
2006-12-29 19:54:36 · 8 answers · asked by toobland22 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
Wow... your assumption is as ridiculous as me stating that the white chics that hit on me at work and my white female friends that flirt must hate white males and only want to settle for me even though I'm the most nerdiest boring Asian guy, just to get away from white males... Do you have a Brain in your head?
2007-01-01 22:41:08 · answer #1 · answered by †ђ!ηK †αηK² 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Im an asian girl. And I havent once yet found an asian guy that ive liked. All the fully asian guys ive known were mostly: shy, socially awkward, and just plain weird.
I like guys with outgoing personalities and white guys seem to have more of those guys. But if I did see an asian guy thats outgoing and what not I would like them in a heartbeat. I dont care about the race. Im not white washed or whatever that is. I just see more white guys with the type of personality I like.
2013-12-27 16:09:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anony 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All of my female Asian friends prefer to only date white men because they associate femininity with Asian men. That generalization is wrong but everyone has preferences in terms of love and that's the preference of my friends...
2006-12-30 04:43:00 · answer #3 · answered by Mille_D-Gurl08 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
It's something called Americanization. In other parts of the world, especially the populated urban cities, it has become ideal to act American and even look American. Look at Bollywood or Japan - Cheap imitations of American culture. People want to be American, and those asian girls you are talking about want to date white men because it reminds them of everything they hold high in their beliefs.
2006-12-30 03:58:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
> People want to be American, and those asian girls you are talking about want to date white men because it reminds them of everything they hold high in THEIR BELIEFS.
I never quite understood what you meant by "their beliefs". What the heck would constitute "their beliefs"?
2006-12-31 23:44:18 · answer #5 · answered by Kurosaki I 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
FIRST... there is no SINGLE CHARACTERISTIC FOR ALL ASIAN AMERICAN WOMEN...
U GOT WOMEN FROM VIETNAM .... HMONGERS,, Chinese, Korean, filipina , japanese... among them , there are different general characteristics...
Hmongers like vietnamese like the whites .. mostly.. maybe because vietnamese males are ******* up their own country.. so they don't trust vietnamese males
Chinese ... there a billion people.. so obviously a fair amount will be seen with white b.f.s
Filipinas..are the same case as Hmongers.. the filipino males cant take care of their own women and their own country.. it is a poor country in stagnation that does not reflect well on filipino males. SO THERE ARE DROVES OF FILIPINAS LOOKING TO MARRY WHITES.
As for Korean and Japanese.. i would say there are less Korean and japanese girls with whites.... (Not to say there are'nt) as compared to other Asians.. because those countries are more economically competitive and well-off with higher levels of education.. So most Korean and Japanese girls prefer to marry with other families with similar backgrounds....
THE STRICTLY AMERICANIZED ASIAN GIRLS THINK THEY ARE WHITE ANY WAY .. SO OF COURSE THEY MARRY TO WHITE.... those girls will put down asian males with stereotypes, proving that they think same as whites...
Those girls also must marry white out of necessity because they are not compatible with THE WELL TO DO, ASIAN FAMILIES with same conservative attitudes... Higher, Upper CLASS families WILL MARRY to similar Asian families of same social status and economic class.
I KNOW I WILL GET **** FOR THIS... BUT its the TRUTH that Asian girls with white guys will TEND (emphasis on TEND , does not mean ALL) TO BE from those FAMILIES WITH LOWER ECONOMIC STATUS... IF I were in the shoes of
those girl's, and I had to choose between the average white guy or average asian.. I would tend towards white too....
They would have more economic opportunity..
ALL women have that instinct to choose a future mate. BUT the ASIAN women who belong to upper middle class families with comfortable wealth and high education can choose to marry other Asians with the same background... So Asian guys with good credentials will get all the BEST Asian girls.. SORRY Asians without those advantages.. you're **** out of luck... BUT DON'T COMPLAIN IF YOU ARE UNDESIRABLE to Asian and White girls... THAT is DARWINIANISM... Find a poor Asian girl to marry.. or a good call girl
2006-12-30 13:18:10 · answer #6 · answered by sal l 1 · 7⤊ 1⤋
In my cause, HECK no. I purposely definetely 200 percent WOULD DATE AN ASIAN GUY! I mean, seriously! Just google Hero Jae Joong, Ryo Nishikido, Hayami Mocomichi, Takeshi. . .They are so damn fine!
2007-01-01 18:47:46 · answer #7 · answered by Traveler 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I think its because many asian men are not physically compatable w/white women. I mean they are shorter and skinnier, and women like to have a guy who is a little macho.
2006-12-30 04:07:22 · answer #8 · answered by cutiepieaww 3 · 2⤊ 5⤋