bestfriend, me and him love hanging out almost everyday and he's supposedly straight and he KNOWS i'm gay. He's a pimp at school with all the girls. Tell me what you think i'm trying to tell you or what you think about him.
2006-12-29 19:53:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
That he's confident in his sexuality such that he doesn't care thet you are gay. given your earlier question, that you fancy him - big time and would like it if he were more than your best friend.
2006-12-29 20:37:56 · answer #1 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you are trying to say that your worried about your friend using women as an income. Because you have super sensitive/female emotions you some how connect with the ho's that are being pimped by your friend. Your friend seems to be a true entrepreneur.
2006-12-29 20:10:49 · answer #2 · answered by poopy pants 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When you say that he is "supposedly' straight it indicates (to me) that you wish he was gay. Yeah, been there. I had a best friend in high school who I was completely infatuated with, he had a girlfriend. I found out from another guy that they had fooled around one night when drunk. I was so in love with him that I confronted him about it. (My logic at the time being that if he can be gay with this other guy, why not with me?) He said he was "just experimenting" and that he had made a decision to be with his girlfriend. So nothing ever happened there, and I was miserable. He soon moved in with his girlfriend. Long story short, 16 YEARS LATER, he came out, and now he's a sort of pitiful 30-something gay guy who smokes tons of pot, hangs out with people half his age and is obviously trying to re-live the gay youth that he never had. So there's some justice there.
My advice to you is to find some gay friends, guys who are learning to be comfortable with who they are, and to be okay with being openly gay. Continue to hang out with your best friend, it sounds like you really get along, but mix it up a bit. See if there's a gay youth group in your city. It can be very liberating to hang out with guys who are as honest about who they are as you seem to be. It probably feels like there's something the matter with you. There isn't. I think it's a bit easier now than it was when I was in high school. I was terrified of the "fags" I knew at the time, but as I've become more comfortable with who I am, I am a lot more tolerant of people's diversity and femininity in guys etc. etc. but I had to go through years of low self-esteem and feeling there was something wrong with me (even as an "out" gay man) to get to this point.
I REALLY liked this guy in high school and I totally know how you feel. I listened to a The Smiths a lot and was actually very depressed, I realize now. It sort of messed with my head, wishing "why can't he just be with me?" and stuff like that. I've learn ed that you can't change people, everyone is on their own path, and it took him many more years to admit his sexuality to himself. There's nothing I could have done to change that. I'm not saying that your friend is gay, but sometimes (I've learned) your gaydar can be 100% accurate, it just takes a while for the reading to come true. On the other hand, if your friend really is straight, you'll just have to let go of your romantic feelings for him. I feel for you, best of luck. This question really struck a chord with me. Hope I've helped.
2006-12-29 22:17:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you could have put all these questions into one and gotten better answers from everyone because they would know more about your situation. :)
-maybe he just likes being a w hore.
-maybe he's gay and hidding it behind all the girls
-maybe he's bi
-maybe he's experimenting
-maybe he really loves you as a friend and doesn't mind kissing you
-maybe he's got a crush on you.
-it is obvious that he trusts you...don't break that trust.
I'd ask him if it bothers you that much. :) Good Luck!
2006-12-29 20:11:11 · answer #4 · answered by Candy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are going to tell that you are fall in love with this guy.
2006-12-29 20:46:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you fancy him ?
he might get girls to make you jealous ?
he could be bi ?
He could just want to be friends with you nd way more with the girls ?
2006-12-29 22:50:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do your parents know this about you?
2007-01-02 15:51:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy it, while u still can....
2006-12-29 21:11:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what?...you like him?
2006-12-29 20:11:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋