For a straight guy to be sexually intimate with a gay guy because the straight guy just wants sex?
2006-12-29 19:47:05 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Sure, but the "perfectly straight" guy had better just come to grips with the fact that he's at least a little gay.
Not that there's anything wrong with that ;)
2006-12-29 19:49:35 · answer #1 · answered by brypri 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ha..its not normal..how could a straight guy be turned on for sex by a gay guy if he is straight in the first place? But actually i could conjure a scenario for u. Just pretend the gay guy is wearing no pants and he tripped over a small kitten and fell right on the straight guy's naked lap..then i guess it is normal if that happens.
2006-12-30 04:47:38 · answer #2 · answered by Christopher 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, unfortunately it's quite normal. Common, actually. Widespread, so to speak. Does that make it okay? Depends if you're the gay guy or the straight guy, doesn't it? Obviously it's okay for the straight guy, he gets sex with a guy, he's still straight, no problem. For the gay guy it's okay if he's willing to be the second choice. It all sounds a bit "no strings attached" to me. No names, no games. It's all good. Dude. It sounds like a load of crap, that's for sure. I'm not buying it. I want a man who can look me in the eye after he f**ks me. And during.
2006-12-30 07:31:17 · answer #3 · answered by answermachine 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't know if I'd call it 'normal', but it does happen. There are a lot of straight men who use gay men for sex, acting as the 'tops' and therefore not tarnishing their sexual orientation.
Just because you have sex with a man doesn't make you gay- desiring men does. However, if you repeatedly have sex with gay men, I can't help but wonder if something's up- it's not something straight people do, although I still wouldn't call you bisexual/gay.
More important to me is about your relationship with this gay guy- does he know you're using him? Using anybody for sex in such a cold, callous way, male or female, gay or straight, isn't very nice. Take care of your desires in a way that hurts no one- masturbate or wait.
2006-12-30 04:09:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes it is normal but ...
A guy who goes for both males and females is called a bisexual... when a straight guy starts being sexually intimate with another guy ... he no longer is called a straight buy ...he has crossed the line from heterosexual to homosexual...
2006-12-30 03:53:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
No its not normal for a straight guy to do that he needs to decide whether he is really straight or not
2006-12-30 06:43:20 · answer #6 · answered by kibeth012 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you have emotional feelings for the guy/guys and continue doing it, then you are either bisexual or gay. just because you have sex with him doesnt mean you are, there are no feelings attached. sex is sex. many guys want to experiment different things. when you're feelings come in, thats when you should question whether you are gay or not.
2006-12-30 03:57:06 · answer #7 · answered by blob888 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Normal ? No. Does it happen? Yes. Especially if he's a walking hormone who pimps himself out to two girls. Don't expect a repeat performance and certainly don't go thinking he's Bi/Gay and would love to be truly intimate with you, his best friend who he knows is gay.
2006-12-30 04:43:49 · answer #8 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you're attracted sexually to another guy you are either bi or gay.
2006-12-30 07:01:36 · answer #9 · answered by Kajunfriend2006 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is just fine. Sex is Sex, we all need it to be healthy and balanced. If thats the only way for you to get it and you want it, then do it.
2006-12-30 03:50:55 · answer #10 · answered by Jason 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋