Long story;short. I love my girlfriend. We've been having problems lately and she just now messaged me with this.
"Ok well...I know what i want and what i want is you, us.
I love you with every little piece of my heart, your the one girl whos ever been able to change me for the better, and my first real love. I am just not gonna let all my stupid doubts ruin the one good thing thats ever walked into my life..you! I love you and i still want you, want us and what we have. And just dont ever think i dont want you cause i can promise you that wont ever be true."
I am just in shock, and I don't know what to say back. Like, my mouth and brain are completely dry and empty. HELP!?
2006-12-29 19:22:33 · 28 answers · asked by SmashJ 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
And I of course still wanna be with her.
2006-12-29 19:22:49 · update #1
oooo!!!! :)
I'd just be like, I love you too, but if you wanna be together we've got to figure out how to get rid of these problems.
And then put a plan in motion to get rid of those problems girl..She loves you! yay!
2006-12-29 19:26:16 · answer #1 · answered by Candy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So stay with her, at least she's being honest. You may not like it but it's better than a lie. Don't think she'll change her mind if you wait long enough. Also don't whine and ***** later if she does what she says she may do. Just have dinner waiting for her when she comes home. She'll need some nourishment after working so hard. It's not easy burning both ends of the candle. It burns bright but burns out fast, and so will you.
2006-12-30 04:55:30 · answer #2 · answered by older, not wiser 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there you go, you just answered your own question. It clear what you want right?. She's too has made it clear what she wants. (in her words) I am just not gonna let all my stupid doubts ruin the one good thing that's ever walked into my life..you!
She's made it clear, sooo what dried you up?. Are there maybe things that concern you?. If sooo figure them out tell her how YOU feel and what you expect. Maybe even help her with her doubts.
If this is meant to be then you have NOOO worries.
Good luck!
2006-12-30 03:34:12 · answer #3 · answered by gord's360 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been here before, but the words back to her wouldn't be truthful if you got them from us, it would be more meaningful and more from the heart if it was replied back with you & you alone. And my no means am I downgrading you or judging you for asking.
But like I've said I've been there before, what I've done is I have reread it and then thought upon it, you may be sitting there and gazing at a blank white page, but after a bit the words will just come to you.
2006-12-30 03:28:45 · answer #4 · answered by Drew 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think about how it makes you feel. I know if it was me and I'd been having relationship issues I would be sure to let her know how indescribably happy I was to hear her say that. Just say something from your heart and don't worry if it sounds stupid, the most heartfelt and beautiful things often do.
2006-12-30 03:30:15 · answer #5 · answered by Rageling 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what to say, but I do wonder how wise it is to post her personal note. Presumably she wrote it for you and wasn't planning on it being on the Internet. If it were me, that would be a major trust violation.
2006-12-30 03:25:47 · answer #6 · answered by jane7 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Life is short. Love doesn't come often. Go to her. Get past the difficulties and be with her.
2006-12-30 03:25:10 · answer #7 · answered by Joe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, "I love you too" is a good start. Beyond that, share with her your true feelings. Open up. How do you feel about soul mates? Is she yours? What about how you feel when she isn't there? Tell her that. You have to find it inside of you. Be honest.
2006-12-30 03:38:57 · answer #8 · answered by Maggie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, so what is the problem? If you love her then be with her. I think it was very nice of her to text you that. At least someone loves you and wants to be with you, enjoy it. :)
2006-12-30 12:40:14 · answer #9 · answered by spiritcavegrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her what you just told us!
Then later think of a witty reply, of course that is nothing but the truth. =]
Being truthful is very important in a relationship. =]
2006-12-30 05:56:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋